bed hoppers - swinging in the UK
Mr and Mrs H are a forty-something couple from the UK who explore the swinging lifestyle. They share their personal stories, tips, and experiences from their journey into ethical non-monogamy and the sex-positive community. Episodes mix candid discussion with humour, a little bit of naughty content, and plenty of fun. The podcast is aimed at listeners curious about or already involved in swinging. It offers a conversational British couple's perspective on the lifestyle.
Episodes
bh228: event meltdown
Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast.
In this episode we talk about Mrs H's birthday, review the recent Ssocial Club and SCN hotel takeover event and explore a bit of a meltdown from Mr H at the event. If you've ever struggled at an event, worked to figure out your approach or felt a bit left out - this might be a helpful one.
Extra note
Mr H here (although TBF, it's always me!). I've thought long
bh227: checking out Secret Desire
In this mini-episode we talk about a new club that's opened near us run by the Secret Desires team. We pop along for opening night and explore the new venue. We chat about our experience, how the night ended for us and why Mrs H decided to wear some very transparent garments along the way. We had a fun time - and recommend you check out the space if you get the chance!
Thanks for hopping into our
bh226: the BBC invite
Thanks for checking out our podcast. In this episode we take a look at swinging in the media - with a couple of different sides to the story. The first is a serious chat about a recent BBC news article and podcast series on a woman called Ruth, who says she was pressured into having sex with strangers through the Fabswingers website more than 100 times. The second is a bit of a download around rec
bh225: the girl who lived
Trigger warning: There are some tough themes in this episode including hospitals, operations, trauma and near death descriptions. If any of these impact you, you might want to skip this one.
In this episode we cover what's been going on and why this month has perhaps been the toughest we've ever faced. During a routine operation Mrs H goes into anaphylactic shock - we talk about what happened, wha
bh224: More than monogamy
Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast.
In this episode we interview filmmakers Dillon and Urvashi, who discuss their documentary ‘More Than Monogamy’. The film is designed to educate on ethical non-monogamy - and is a fantastic beginners guide to swinging, ENM and more.
Dillon and Urvashi talk about some of the trials of getting the film made, why they set out to explore the topic and tell us a littl
bh223: talking events with Bex & Paul
Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast.
In this episode, we revamp the show a little bit and also interview the delightful Bex and Paul from untamed nights.
We talk about their journey, how they got started and what it's like running events. They offer some top tips for heading to events and how to make the most of your experience. We cover items for desert islands and have a great natter about all t
bh222: do you put on a show?
Hello and welcome to episode 222 - the last of season one!
In this edition Mrs H poses some questions around performative sexy times. Do you put on a show when you play with someone? Is it performative or are you just being you? We talk about putting on a show and if that's our bag, what we do for solo dates and if we prep more for other people. It's a fun little end to the first season of the bed
bh221: Bristol Gardens Health Spa & 8 years
In this episode we recount our visit to Bristol Gardens Health Spa in Brighton. We talk about the venue being a professional naturist spa and its features, including a cafe, steam rooms, and private themed playrooms. We ponder if it’s a hook up place or somewhere to relax and unwind… Take a listen to our review to find out more.
We also mark our podcast’s eight-year anniversary. Mr. H reflects on
bh220: are we swingers?
Welcome to the latest edition of the bed hoppers podcast. We're back after a few weeks of illness for Mr H.
We talk about what we've been up to since Christmas and New Year and take a look at what we've got coming up.
Mr H asks Mrs H if we're really swingers - and what all of this stuff means to us. Are we successful, would or should we change things? Is our approach moving along? It's a pretty bi
bh219: Secret Stag & Secret Vixen Return
In this episode we invite sexy friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen behind the mic once more and catch up on what they've been up to over the last year. They talk about adventures in hot wifing, a trip to a hotwife takeover event in the states, answer our questions and share some of their sexiest moments. We cover how they're going in their lifestyle journey and look to what 2026 might mean for th
bh218: 2025 and solo party prep
In this episode we talk about 2025 and explore some of our highs and lows for the year. We talk a little about the future and what the coming year might look like for our adventures. We chat about some forthcoming solo dates and our plans for how they might work. Mr H is getting ready to go to a party - so we talk about boundaries, possible situations and how to keep Mrs H involved. It's a handy o
bh217: the video side quest
Thanks for checking us out! In this delightful episode we follow up on Mrs H's side quest, which we spoke about in the previous podcast. Essentially, she was challenged to film some naughty content and send it to Mr H whilst he was on his solo date. Did she film it? Did she send it? Was it sexy? For the answers to this and more, take a lovely listen to this show!
We cover how we're feeling about p
bh216: sex pics & videotape
Ahhhh swingers and posting pictures. Have you ever joined a swinging site and recoiled in horror at some of the pictures posted? Perhaps you feel like you could never compete? Or maybe you constantly share pictures and videos every three and a half minutes? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are prob'ly human! Congratulations! We talk about all things posting pics and vids. We
bh215: catching up with Mr and Ms J
This episode features delightful guests Mr and Ms J - who talk about their journey into the swinging lifestyle. We cover a whole host of things from dealing with anxiety, diving straight into clubs, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and what challenges children might bring into their adventures. Mr and Mrs H also have a bit of a chat about getting videos and pictures - it's only the start of
bh214: back on track
Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we talk about our last week or two and how it feels like we’re turning a corner. From awesome threesomes to sexy solo dates and steps in the right direction on meds, it has certainly been a delightful period!
We bring you up to date on our latest escapades, talk about our solo adventures, recount some sexy moments and celebrate how things are on
bh213: single and bi with Sam
This episode starts with an update from us, we check in on Mrs H's menopause progress, chat about the Thrifty shades of grey event and touch on some of our recent adventures.
Our main feature is an interview with Sam, an energetic single man in his early 40s, who describes himself as bisexual and "ADHD as hell". Sam is navigating the lifestyle after a 16-year vanilla relationship, exploring expe
bh212: new dynamics with Bunny and A
We invite two lovely ladies, Bunny and A, to join us for a chat exploring their journey, swinging lifestyle experiences and what they'd throw into room 101. They talk about their new relationship, how it came about and what it means for them and A's partner. We touch on our recent social event, announce a new one and they fire a question or two at us. It's a fabulous interview, digging into new re
bh211: a chat with Jess
In this episode we speak to Jess, who shares her personal journey and insights into the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. Jess, describing herself as a "9-year-old who has been to a lot of therapy", recounts entering the scene through polyamory after university and later discovering swinging post-lockdown.
She identifies as solo poly, preferring to engage in swinging independently, shaped by he
bh210: Open House - the good, the bad and the ugly
In this episode we bring you up to date on what's being going on in our lives. From poorly pets, to great lifestyle success, solo dates, all the way through to HRT - we give you a behind the scenes look at life with the bed hoppers. Find out if Mrs H picked up on some recent sexy hints!
We move on to talk about Channel 4's Open House programme. We talk about what worked for us in season three, wh
bh209: Gav in the spotlight
In this episode we chat to single fella Gav. He talks about his journey, how he's started exploring his bi side and some of the challenges you might face as a single gentleman exploring the swinging lifestyle. We cover advice for newbies, what Gav would put in the lifestyle bin and if we've ever deleted one of our podcast recordings. It's fun romp through one man's journey from newbie to experienc
bh208: a little more on Cap d'Agde
In this episode (part two of two) we talk about our final few days in Cap d'Agde and our experience as part of the Spicy Match and Libertine event. We cover the foam party, Le Glamour and our overall experience in the French naturist village. We pick up where we left off on the question 'are we shit swingers?' and try to figure out what's changed and why. As ever, we'd love your thoughts - so plea
bh207: swinging in Cap d'Agde (part one)
In this episode we talk about our trip to the South of France, visiting the naturist village of Cap d'Agde.
This one is a two parter - with more to follow, but we do explore the first half of our week. We talk about about some of the clubs, events and what we got from our Spicy Match trip. From poolside orgies to cold sores - this one covers a lot of ground! Mr H takes time out to reflect on 'if
bh206: a Parisian solo adventure
In this episode we talk about Mrs H's solo adventure in Paris. Was it all Pokemon hunting or was there something a little more naughty? We explore how it all went, how we felt during the trip and talk a little bit about what Mr H got up to whilst Mrs H was away.
Will Mrs H bring him back a croissant, will it be too hot in Paris, will Mr H have changed the theme tune again and what happens when st
bh205: Ads and Chantelle
This episode features a candid conversation with delightful guests Ads and Chantelle, about their experiences in the swinging lifestyle.
They discuss how they initially entered the lifestyle through an amateur adult content blog and the subsequent evolution of their relationship, including Chantelle's discovery of her bisexuality and Ads's exploration of his own.
The couple shares insights into ov
bh204: were rules made to be broken?
In this episode we dive into a discussion about rules and boundaries. We talk about how our rules have evolved from when we first started swinging, how they’ve changed and why we’ve changed them. We explore why we have them there in the first place and if we’ve broken any rules along the way.
You might find this a useful listen if you’re about to explore ethical non monogamy and swinging - or it m
bh203: sexy solo dates
In this episode we catch up on our solo dating experiences and explore why we've been having some separate play dates over the last few months. We cover what's to come and why we might keep this activity as part of our overall play experience. If you're looking to explore this aspect of Swinging, this one might inspire a conversation or two. And if you're just looking to be entertained, there's no
bh202: data is sexy
Did you know that data is sexy? Join our episode today and find out about a recent survey we put out about swinging and people's experiences. We make some surprising discoveries about when people started, who brought it up and what people would throw in the swinging lifestyle bin. From age ranges to play-style preferences, we excel at exploring a whole range of data (ha! spreadsheet puns - I wonde
bh201: neurodiversity with Rich & Jo
This episode features Rich and Jo, who playfully describe each other before discussing their entry into the swinging lifestyle via online platforms and initial club experiences. A key theme is communication, which they highlight as crucial for navigating their relationship and has positively impacted their "vanilla" life. They also delve into their adult ADHD diagnoses, finding relief in understan
bh200: the big 200th episode
Thanks for joining our 200th episode! Some very special guests host this one and put us (Mr and Mrs H) under the spotlight. The conversation explores the podcast's origins, our favourite episodes, and memorable guests, and touches on some of the challenges too. We explore events we've have hosted and dream events we'd host if given the chance!
Of course, we trade some playful jabs about our past m
bh199: our guide to social dates
In this episode we talk about how we've had a few dates recently and offer some top tips on the topic.
We discuss our experiences with 'social dates' - exploring potential romantic connections with other couples or singles within the swinging lifestyle. We share advice on initiating contact, choosing appropriate venues, communicating effectively, and navigating the complexities of physical intimac
bh198: Ticket2Ride
In this episode we talk to the delightful Ticket2Ride and quiz them about how they got started, what it's like identifying as a straight girl in a bi-world and how not everyone has a fantasy. We take time out to explore their journey, the ups and downs and what they'd like to throw in the lifestyle bin. We also announce a brand new event - a social in Manchester!
Thanks for hopping into our bed
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bh197: The New Forest Couple
In this episode we talk to the New Forest Couple - that's Andrew and Clare. We explore their journey, approach and some of the challenges they've faced along the way. Clare opens up about how and why events and meets can be a struggle and offers some great advice for anyone with a disability looking to join the lifestyle. This is an open and honest conversation that you will not want to miss.
Than
bh196: Pennylane and Starlord
In this episode we interview sexy friends Pennylane and Starlord. Be warned though - it's Mr H's birthday and it's possible that we've had some cocktails. We explore some of the challenges they've faced, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and learn how they got started in the swinging lifestyle. Join us for a really fun conversation and exploration into how this couple have navigated their exp
bh195: Shiv and Tom
In this episode we talk to Shiv and Tom - a couple who are relatively new in their journey. They talk about their experiences, how they got started, advice for folks just starting out and what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin. It's a fun little conversation - with something for everyone.
Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Find Shiv and Tom on Swinghub by searching 'Shiv&Tom'
Want to
bh194: Ruby and Cole
Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!
In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your ro
bh193: swinger NYE survival
In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for
bh192: in the sun and man down
In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then?
Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Read the article we mention: http
bh191: time for a question or two
In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling explora
bh190: the masturbation station
In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too.
Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Visit our website here: https://www.bed
bh189: solo play for Mrs H
In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a re
bh188: surprising challenges
In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this on
bh187: party at Vanilla Alternative
In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classe
bh186: how we started swinging
In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you.
Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Tickets
bh185: how to rock a threesome
In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one h
bh184: UK Swingers on Spicy Island
In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you.
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bh183: a chat with our son
In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures.
This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and unde
bh182: events, socials and a bi conversation
In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi.
Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast!
Handy links
Find out a
bh181: solo dates for Mr and Mrs H
In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the concl
bh180: the greatest swinging podcast ever
In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too!
Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you!
Thank
bh179: an honest conversation
Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.
Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think thr
bh178: PJ parties, socials and making the most of it
In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too.
Thanks for downloading our podcast!
Handy links
Find out about the amazing SpicyIsla
bh177: the black and white ball
In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case.
Thanks for hopping into our podcas
bh176: life updates, top tv and solo dates
In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date!
Thanks for hoppin
bh175: lads, lads, lads
In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Fin
bh174: Mrs H goes one on one with Secret Stag
After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for yo
bh173: one on one with Secret Vixen
In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.
Handy links
Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitt
bh172: from red-lines to escalations
In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com
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bh171: glory holes and trouser holes - NYE at Xstasia
Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!
This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishe
bh170: a solo play date
In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
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bh169: the great big UK hotel takeover
This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the
bh168: a big discussion on dynamics
Thanks for downloading our podcast.
We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thin
bh167: the Miami PCAP recap
Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone!
Handy links
Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events her
bh166: SwingHub and Open House with Olivia and Gage
In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too!
Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Find out about SwingHub:
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bh165: the pre event conversation
In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Come to our Winter Wonderla
bh164: Swindon Swingers Club
In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and
bh163: masturbation and eye opening moments
Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We also announce our brand new event (Winter Wonderland) that we're hosting with the amazing Wanderlust Swingers. We offer an update on our home lives and talk
bh162: lose yourself in the moment
Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a something of a hiccup on the Sunday afternoon. We talk about losing yourself in the moment and how much you give to your play partners - and we wonder how m
bh161: Fata Morgana and Fun4Two
Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and reveal our favourite - handy if you're heading to Amsterdam and the like. Do get in touch if you've been to either club or have some other recommendations.
bh160: the hot summer nights event
Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cover what's been going on at home and the lead up to the event - along with a few spicy details about the night.
Special thanks go to...
Cate and Darrell fo
bh159: our top three UK swingers clubs
Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the good - we're pretty positive. Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
The Vanilla Alternative: https://va2.co.uk/
Le Boudoir: https://leboudoir
bh158: our worst experience
Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several years back that we've never discussed on the podcast before. Trigger warning - it includes a hospital trip and a seizure - so please keep that in mind as you li
bh157: a slutty weekend
Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret kisses and sleepy hand jobs too! We also talk about attending a rather lovely social event in Oxford. Apologies in advance for Mr H's voice - I'm sorry, I
bh156: questions for your lover
Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are...
1. Why are we doing this?
2. Are we having fun?
3. What does the future look like?
4. How are we staying connected?
5. Is there anything you'd like to tell me?
We run
bh155: just the twoofus
Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we interview great friends the Twoofus (or the Twoofers) - and find out more about how they came to join the lifestyle, their favourite clubs and who they'd have over for tea. There's some fun along the way with favourite sandwiches and who'd play us and them in our own film.
Thanks for hopping into our bed!
Handy links
Find out more about the Twoo
bh154: busting makes us feel good
In this episode we tackle some of the great swinger myths - where they might come from, if any of them are actually true and which are just urban legends. Mrs H pulls together a list of her favourites and tests Mr H on the fact or fiction. A fun little adventure through some of those crazy things we've heard in the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for hopping into our show!
Handy Links
Hot Summer Night
bh153: a matter of guilt
In this episode we invite fabulous friends Secret Vixen and Secret Stag on for a discussion on guilt. We cover feeling guilty as parents, carers and friends as we take time out to explore our sexuality and the swinging and hot-wifing lifestyles. If you've ever felt bad for dropping your friends, leaving your kids with the grand-parents or having your own life - this might just be the topic for you
bh152: bed hoppers on TV
Did you know that we were on TV again? In the UK we were on 5Star (a Channel 5 thing) on a show called Adults Only - swingers wanted. At the time of publishing, it's still available on catch up. We talk about filming, what on earth made us do TV again and what we thought about the programme. We compare it to our previous effort on television and work through what worked well and what wasn't for us
bh151: some random questions
We delve into some random listener questions - from the ultimate Batman to perfecting your profile. Should you sh1t on your own doorstep and how long have we been name and face out? There's some serious discussion and some fun to be had too. Also - look out for the slightly new intro!
Thanks for hopping into our bed.
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bh150: the RED HOT Party and a look back at our favourites
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In this episode we take a look at our recent Red Hot Party (hosted with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers). We talk event prep, how it went on the night and how Mr H has been feeling reflecting back on it.
And, since it's our 150th episode, we also take a stroll through memory lane and recall some of our favourite bed hopper episodes - and why they mean so much to
bh149: surviving events
In this episode the delightful Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast joins us - and we talk about making the most of events. We cover our top tips for a successful event, some of the dos and don'ts and how to get the best errr bang for your buck. Cate's experience in running events comes in really handy - as does our ability to get it wrong!
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