
The Down Low
A bi-weekly podcast hosted by Bernie Abambi and Ess, two Black, DL(ish), bisexual millennials in London. They discuss music, politics, and celebrity foolishness with humor and honesty, mixing serious topics with a generous amount of shade. The show invites listeners to email dilemmas, life woes, fun questions, or their own music. Hosts are active on Twitter and Instagram as @deardownlow.
Episodes

Not OK
A proper fucking by the North (Sea)...

House Of The Dragging
OK, GIRL!?!?

Bisexual Starmaker
One ticket to Squiggletown, please!

LEMONADE
Sorry...

Mind The Age Gap
Calling it a day...

Julius, Seize Her!
Say no to light skinned love...

Monster's Ballroom
The category is: war crimes...

Heated Apologists
12k on a bad month...

Backdoor Dealings
Not the PBL...

Good For You!
Feeling sort of non-binary...

The Defectors
SET THE CAT AMONGST THE PIGEONS, ROXY!

THE DL WRAPPED: 2025
Better late than never!

Fraud and Frequent Flyer Miles
Chestnuts roasting on an open fire, Evri parcels flying at your nose….

Wicked Witch!
My milkshakes brings HMRC to the yard...

Alienation of Affection
Definitely over it...

The Five Year Engagement
Boyfriends are so out...

Drunk In Love
The Spirit of Messica...

Rappers & Raptures
The girls are still fighting...

Empathy is a knife
Purrr...

Spleen Says No!
Let her eat cake!

Lord Of The Flies
Dijana affi go!

Gayngel Of Mine
The timing was unfortunate...

TOTTENHAM HOLD 'EM
WAH WAH WAH!

Free Greta!
Who is Addison McRae?

Side To Side
I wonder if there are any paintings...

Who St*bbed Mr. Lanez?
That's the way the brookie crumbles...

He Is Dead
Oops-a-daisy...
Trigger warning SA: 30-45 mins.

Awful April!
Planning drone strikes in the lad's group chat...

Socially Top/Fiscally Bottom
Bangers, mash and delusion...

Standing On (Bi)dness
But BLM, right?

Born To DEI
It's against my religion to tell y'all my business...

Short n' Sweet
A delicious nothing burger!

Niggle, please!
Bunch of weirdos...

THE DL WRAPPED: 2024
Kind of bad, but adequate...
Time stamps (approx)
DL UNCUT Promo - 50:26
Mini Low Down - 1:28:22
Sound Offs and DL Wrapped Quiz - 2:19:47

Free Him!
Bad vibes all round...

Green + White
Light skin men can't catch a break...

Baby Daddy Lessons
Yes, bitch, I lied to Gayle King!

101 D's
Sending apologies to Fergie...

Barely Black
He was a mutt, she was a mutt...

Alligator Tears
Pretty privilege is real...

Emotional Luggage
You thought I was feeding you?

Bi On Bi Violence
Sucking what in the what?!

Blackistan!
Unwashed legs, washed nation...

Frenemies!
The coconut doesn't fall far from the tree...

Freaky Friday
Chat shit, get shhh....

For Coloured Girls
This is gonna ruin the world tour...

Pride Sucks!
Fenty Shake and Go!
Spoilers
Queenie 38mins -39mins
I Kissed A Girl 39 mins - 49 mins
Love Island 49 mins - 1hr 4 mins

Sadder Than Ever
Je suis Karen...
Spoilers:
The Ultimatum: South Africa (42:10 - 59:10)
I Kissed A Girl (59:10 - 1:11:00)

Hateration Generation
For the haters in their late twenties!
I Kissed a Girl spoilers 0:48 mins - 1:02 mins

Beyonc/A.I.
SHOW THE PROOF OF FUNDS!
@palestinesolidarityuk
@lgbtrightsghana
@eye.on.palestine

The DL Wrapped: 2023
We’ll see y’all very soon! (Also, you know the drill - no skipsies.)

Sloppy Bottom
The messiest person you know...

Bleaches & Cream
Right in front of my salad?!

Strictly Dickly
Thirty Seven!?

Slurps Up!
We back - Fo Shiz, Fo Shiz!

Bedbugs & Bullies
Don't let the bed bugs bite...

Bad Vibes
Hanging on tenterhooks...

Definitely Gay
Blessed rat girl summer...

Lift Every Voice and Swing!
BOOP, badu badu badu...

Twenties-ish
It's the crickets...

Ashes To Ashes
He didn't say I couldn't sing!

Je Suis Submersible
It's giving sexyyy...

Straight Outta Camden
Some birthday!

He Lied, He Lied!
Straights to the back!

Swirl To The World
We like paragraphs!

Everyone Is Dead
Stay slay!

Gorgeous, Gorgeous Girlies!
Are you trying to fuck me?

Pr*cks Abroad
From Donald Duck to Donald Trump

Monkey Business
WELL!

Mean Girls
Wind your neck in!

P**** Facing The World!
ANJULUH BASSEH DID THA THING!
(Love island spoilers 27:00 - 47)

Jollof Wars!
The percs of being a wallflower...

Death By Oxtail
Justice for Celine!

The DL Wrapped: 2022
No skipsies!

Stuntin’ At The Savoy
Dunno what you heard...

Don’t Call Me (Nepo) Baby!
Just horsin' around...

Silk Presses & Shenanigans
Some body that I used to know...
SPOILER ALERT: Wakanda Forever - from 1:17:00 - 1:23:50.

Wilde Dressing!
Ratchet Happy Birthday!

Rih-surface!
5 times?!?

The Banks Witch Project
Ding dong, the [redacted] is [redacted].
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