Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships
Can't Host is a podcast for gay, bisexual, and queer men that focuses on sex and relationships, aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes and explore the complex dynamics of queer partnerships. The show discusses topics like sexual trauma, body shame, the top/bottom binary, falling out of love, and homonormativity, with the goal of fostering healing and personal growth. Host George Lizos creates a space for open conversations about masculinity, intimacy, and authenticity, encouraging listeners to break free from rigid community rules. The podcast is designed for gay men who want more joy and honesty in their sex lives and relationships.
Episodes
Ep.90: Orgies, Sex Parties and the City Part II
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Ep.89: Queerness, Brotherhood, and the Power of Male Connection with Alessandro Rōz
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Ep. 88: What Gay Saunas Taught Me About Shame and Queer Belonging
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Ep.87: Queer Love, Borders, and Long Distance Relationships with Jeremy Atherton Lin
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Ep.86: Queer Money Wounds, Investing, and Building Wealth with Nick Wolny
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Ep.85: Dentist Tips for Oral Health, Bad Breath, and Better Blowjobs with Dr Brian Novy
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Ep.84: Opening Up Your Marriage: The Truth About Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) with Wayne Scott
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Ep.83: Dom Tops vs Dumb Tops: Consent, Control, and Real Connection in Bed
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Ep.82: Straight Guy Talks Anal Play, Rimming & the Male G-Spot with Tony Demetriou
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Ep.81: A Straight Guy and a Gay Guy Compare Sex Notes with Tony Demetriou
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Ep.80: How to Have Mind-Blowing Sex
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Ep.79: Mostly Straight Men, Masculinity, and the Future of Sexual Fluidity with Dr. Ritch Savin-Williams
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Ep.78: Queer Shame, Rejection, and Healing After Religion with Ann Russo
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Ep.77: Sex Shame, OnlyFans, and My Top Era
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Ep.76: Sexual Fluidity Beyond Labels and Binaries with Mark Cusack
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Ep.75: The Ultimate BDSM Topping Guide with Janet W Hardy
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Ep.74: The Ultimate BDSM Bottoming Guide with Janet W Hardy
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Ep.73: The Truth About STIs, PrEP & Sexual Health with Christos Krasidis
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Ep.72: The Psychology of Heartbreak with Cole Zesiger
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Ep.71: Healing After a Breakup – My Twin Flame Journey and the Lessons It Taught Me
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Ep.70: Healing in Relationship – The Inner Work You Can’t Do Alone
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Ep.69: How I Manifested My Ideal Partner (Step-by-Step)
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Ep.68: Bisexual in a Straight Marriage with Wayne Scott
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Ep.67: Kinks, Fetishes, and Fisting Training with Alexander Cheves
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Ep.66: Somatic Sex Secrets for Deeper Pleasure with Court Vox
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Ep.65: U=U, Dating Poz, and Breaking HIV Stigma with Adrian Posea
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Ep.64: Psychic Medium Channels the Spiritual Mission of Queer People with Anthony Zambito
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Ep.63: Queerness, Sacred Orgies, and Being a Radical Faerie with Omri
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Ep.62: Cock Worship, Naked Yoga, and Sensual Touch with Omri
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Ep.61: Throuples, Thirst Traps, and Cuddle Puddles with Manuel Betancourt
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Ep.60: Most Underrated Gay Traveling Destinations with the Nomadic Boys
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Ep.59: Fuck Boys, Red Flags, and Dating Games with Ryan Sheldon
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Ep.58: Zodiac Signs in Bed: Kinks, Fetishes, Dick Size with Danny Santos
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Ep. 57: Manual Foreskin Restoration Techniques with Tim Hammond
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Ep.56: Circumcision Myths, Intactivism, and Foreskin Restoration with Georganne Chapin
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Ep.55: Orgies, Sex Parties and the City Part I
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Ep.54: Is Gay Pride Still Important? (Pride Attendees)
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Ep.53: 'Never Have I Ever' Gay Sex Edition with Kiriakos Spanos (Leo Domenico)
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Ep.52: Growing Up in a Homophobic Country with Alex Englezou
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Ep.51: Cock Rings for Harder Erections and Longer Orgasms with Dr. Elliot Justin
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Ep.50: Non-Surgical Penile Enlargement with Dr. Judson Brandeis
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Ep.49: Biphobia, Black Bisexuality, and Transcending Masculinity with J.R. Yussuf
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Ep.48: Taking Someone's Gay Virginity
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Ep.47: Gay Sex and Relationships in Ancient Greece
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Ep.46: Sexual Fantasies, Tighty Whities, and Bottoming Tips with Milo Miles
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Ep.45: Healing Shame, Trauma, and Forgiving Our Abusers with Dr. Frank Anderson
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Ep.44: OnlyFans Secrets, Gay Cruises, and Surprise Anal with Greg McKeon
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Ep.43: Gay Porn Secrets: Fake Cum Shots, Stunt Dicks, Penile Injections with Greg McKeon
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BONUS: Become a Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations
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Ep.42: Aphrodisiac Herbs, Magic Mushrooms for Sex, and Poppers Energetics with Coby Michael
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Ep.41: Raising LGBTQIA+ Allies with Chris Tompkins
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Ep.40: Gay Men’s Guide to Healing with Britt East
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Ep.39: Coming Out and Coming of Age with Josh Sabarra
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Ep.38: Do Bisexual Men Exist? With Vaneet Mehta
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Ep.37: Changing Black Queer Narratives with George M. Johnson
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Ep.36: Queer Sex, Magic and Spirituality in the Ancient World with Tomás Prower
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Ep.35: Toxic Masculinity Pop Culture Stereotypes with Manuel Betancourt
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Ep.34: Chem Sex, Party and Play (PnP), and Crystal Meth Addiction with Jason Yamas
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Ep.33: Masturbation Techniques for Men with Cam Fraser
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Ep.32: Cruising, Group Sex and Fetishes
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Ep.31: Sex Positivity, Semen Retention, and Being a Side
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Ep.30: Ghosting and Kinder Ways of Rejecting People
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Ep.29: Fat Shaming, Body Image, and the Pressure to Look Ripped with Todd Masterson
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Ep.28: How I Healed My Sexual Trauma
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Ep.27: The Benefits of Being Single
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Ep.26: Multiple Orgasms Without Ejaculation with Johnathan White
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Ep.25: Fitness Hacks for Looking and Feeling Good with Steven Goldsmith
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Ep.24: Overcome Sexual Shame and Embrace Your Sluttiness with Zachary Zane
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Ep.23: A Trans Man’s Journey of Reclaiming His Faith with Alex Reegan
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Ep.22: Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica Fern
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Ep.21: Surviving Gay Conversion Therapy with Dr. Lucas Wilson
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Ep.20: Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Ep.19: Gays In The Wild with Jeff Perla
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Ep.18: Trending Gay Sex Toys with Agnetas Sergejevas
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Ep.17: Why Straight Men Have Sex With Men with Dr. Joe Kort
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Ep.16: Are You Addicted to Sex? With Dr. Joe Kort
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Ep.15: Energy Protection Before, During, and After Sex
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Ep.14: Overcoming Loneliness and Social Isolation with Jonathan Sekerak
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Ep.13: Non-Binary Queer Sex and Relationships with Ari Wisner
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