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How To Be 60 with Kaye Adams

How To Be 60 with Kaye Adams

Kaye Adams 305 episodes Nov 11, 2026

Turning 60 isn’t about slowing down—it’s about shaking things up. Whether it’s downsizing and embracing a simpler life, starting a new career, moving abroad, or navigating love and relationships in unexpected ways, How To Be 60 proves that this stage of life is anything but predictable. Join Kaye Adams and her brilliantly blunt co-host, Karen MacKenzie, as they chat with familiar faces and everyday people rewriting the rulebook on aging. With honesty, humour, and plenty of surprises, they explore what it really means to embrace change, challenge expectations, and make the years ahead the best yet.

Episodes

Midweek Catchup: The Avocado That Ended a Romance
Midweek Catchup: The Avocado That Ended a Romance Nov 11, 2026 21:04 On this week’s Midweek Catchup, we work out how small a thing it takes to end a romance. For Karen, it was a man who thought her avocado was a lime. For Kaye, it was a tongue in the ear over a pub lunch, and a mum who came round every Tuesday to do his washing.Karen is on her fourth cold in four months, and Kaye has been shopping for a spittoon. Kaye admits she has started doing the things that us
Vanessa Feltz: Finally Her Own Boss at 64
Vanessa Feltz: Finally Her Own Boss at 64 Nov 6, 2026 48:23 On this week’s episode, we’re joined by Vanessa Feltz, who was supposed to be winding down when we last spoke four years ago. Instead, at 64, she has launched her own YouTube show, where guests join her on her bed, and is running a business for the first time in her life. After 38 years of bosses telling her what she couldn’t do, she is the one making the calls now, and she loves it.She talks abou
Midweek Catchup: The Sicilian, the Tennis and the Russian Salad
Midweek Catchup: The Sicilian, the Tennis and the Russian Salad Nov 4, 2026 27:53 On this week’s Midweek Catchup, we read out your verdicts on Kate Mulvey and her Sicilian, including one email so cross it ended with a Godfather reference. Most of you are with Karen. Kaye, meanwhile, has been quietly trying out compromise. She went to watch Ian play tennis. She said nothing when he ate the Russian salad. Whether either counts as progress is up for debate.Karen is back in the fam
Kate Mulvey: Did Breakfast in Bed End My Sicilian Romance?
Kate Mulvey: Did Breakfast in Bed End My Sicilian Romance? Oct 30, 2026 37:34 On this week’s episode, we’re joined by writer Kate Mulvey, whose summer romance began with a kiss under an erupting Etna and ended over breakfast in bed. At 64, Kate has made something of a speciality of examining her own 60s, and she doesn’t spare herself. She talks about the miscarriage at 41 that made her realise she had a lifestyle but not a life, the flowers she crushed by asking for olive o
Midweek Catchup: Bananagrams, the Ultimate Adrenaline Sport
Midweek Catchup: Bananagrams, the Ultimate Adrenaline Sport Oct 28, 2026 26:25 On this week’s Midweek Catchup, we’ve swapped places. Kaye is sunbathing on a Spanish beach at the end of October, and Karen is back in stormy Scotland with a freshly re-broken toe, courtesy of a sunbed leg. There’s the flight home through the storm that nobody wants to repeat, Donna May bullying Kaye into a sea that was more Atlantic than Mediterranean, and a run of mysterious Amazon orders that
Amanda Prowse: Cake on a Tuesday, a Son Who Stopped Talking and an HGV Dream
Amanda Prowse: Cake on a Tuesday, a Son Who Stopped Talking and an HGV Dream Oct 22, 2026 45:53 On this week’s episode, we’re joined by Amanda Prowse, who says she found her power at 50 thanks to an Instagram post about birthday cake. The bestselling novelist wasn’t published until her forties, and she talks about the fear that ran her life before that, losing her brother Simon, and why she now thinks getting older is a privilege.She also talks about The Boy Between, the book she wrote with
Midweek Catchup: Is Kaye Letting the Side Down by Dyeing Her Hair?
Midweek Catchup: Is Kaye Letting the Side Down by Dyeing Her Hair? Oct 20, 2026 24:55 On this week’s Midweek Catchup, we read out a listener’s mum’s diary of good deeds, including the day she cleaned her husband’s toothbrush and warmed his feet. Karen is calling in from Spain, where she has been recognised three times since leaving home and is not handling it quietly. Kaye is in a London hotel, having forgotten her room number and tried most of the doors on the third floor.Kaye als
Professor Tanya Byron: On the Cusp of 60 and Done with Therapy-Speak
Professor Tanya Byron: On the Cusp of 60 and Done with Therapy-Speak Oct 15, 2026 43:33 On this week's episode, we're joined by clinical psychologist and broadcaster Professor Tanya Byron, of The House of Tiny Tearaways fame. She's six months off 60 and celebrating all year with friends she's known since she was 11. Tanya wrote much of her new book, You Are Not a Diagnosis, at her mother's bedside. Her mum lived with Alzheimer's, the long goodbye, and was in T
Midweek Catchup: The Great Cottage Cheese Crisis
Midweek Catchup: The Great Cottage Cheese Crisis Oct 13, 2026 25:19 On this week's Midweek Catchup, Lildl has stopped selling full-fat cottage cheese, and Karen, who eats it daily for her bones, is touring the supermarkets for the perfect lumpy, not watery, pot. Kaye finally ditches her grim old water bottle and nearly vomits at the £40 price of a new one. And there's chocolate orange mini rolls for Mrs Pre-diabetic, a family holiday to Malaga, a hedge bou
Louise Doughty: The Suitcase That Rewrote My Parents' Love Story
Louise Doughty: The Suitcase That Rewrote My Parents' Love Story Oct 8, 2026 54:01 On this week's episode, we're joined by Louise Doughty, who found a rusted black suitcase at the bottom of her late mum's wardrobe and nearly put it out with the bins. Inside were scores of undated letters charting the secret affair her parents had in 1950s Melton Mowbray, when her dad was a married man and her mum was his boss's secretary. Louise tells us how she pieced them toget
Midweek Catchup: Are You in a Care Home or What?
Midweek Catchup: Are You in a Care Home or What? Oct 6, 2026 27:10 On this week's Midweek Catchup, Karen is up at the family home in a winged velour chair that Kaye swears belongs in a care home. She's been foraging for chanterelles, the only mushroom she can identify, and with nothing else to carry them in, she used a dog poo bag. Then she took it to the counter of the local gift shop. She's not going back. Kaye is wondering whether her mango habit i
Julia Macklin: The Day I Looked Into My Own Eyes
Julia Macklin: The Day I Looked Into My Own Eyes Oct 1, 2026 55:14 On this week's episode, we're joined by Julia Macklin, who was 15 in 1983 when her baby daughter was taken from her for adoption. Not 1953. 1983. Julia grew up in a devout Catholic family in Manchester and was told, again and again, that letting her baby go was the kindest thing she could do. She talks about the short letters from the Catholic Rescue Society describing another family bondi

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