Pearlieee
Hi, I'm Pearlieee! I’m a wild bird and a passionate babe. This is a space for thinkers, feelers, and anyone brave enough to become. Expect magic, nuance, chaos… and loving bluntness x
Episodes
10 Things I Wish I Knew At 20
10 Things I Wish I Knew At 20
trying to understand them is why you can't move on
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stop wasting years living someone else's life
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Everything Happens for a Reason is a Lie
Get structured support →https://theneurocosmic.com/Get your free self-inquiry guide — Let the Mirror Crack → https://theneurocosmic.com/pages/free-resources Neurocosmic Notes Newsletter →https://theneurocosmic.com/pages/the-inner-circle
Detachment is easy, actually!
Get structured support →https://theneurocosmic.com/Get your free self-inquiry guide — Let the Mirror Crack → https://theneurocosmic.com/pages/free-resources Neurocosmic Notes Newsletter→https://theneurocosmic.com/pages/the-inner-circle
This Tiny Habit Fixed My Relationship With Myself
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The Hard Truth About Being Single Nobody Talks About
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Nobody Teaches Women This About Love (And It Costs Us Years)
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50 Things I wish I knew Earlier
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Make Everyday So Fun It Feels Like a Trip
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all you need is DELUSION
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Pearlieee Talks Friendship Imbalance, Love Bombing & Letting Go| TMBAS Season 1 Finale
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What If Love Isn’t Meant to Be Fast?
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Pearlieee Talks Attachment Issues, Bad Timing & Growing Pains | TMBAS EP #5
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I Loved You. That Still Wasn’t Enough.
In the Mix : Is Love Enough?
Pearlieee Talks Self-Deception, Imaginary Lovers & Bad Patterns | TMBAS EP 4
Send in Your Questions for TMBAS - https://forms.gle/gm2NPKSu1FHVp8wr9The Unmasking workbook: grab yours at https://theneurocosmic.com/
Pearlieee Talks Love Confusion, Family Guilt & Identity Crises | TMBAS EP #3
TMBAS Send in Your Questions for TMBAS - https://forms.gle/gm2NPKSu1FHVp8wr9The Unmasking workbook: grab yours at https://theneurocosmic.com/
Pearlieee Talks Cheating, Situationships & Knowing When to Walk Away | TMBAS #2
TMBAS #2Send in Your Questions for TMBAS - https://forms.gle/gm2NPKSu1FHVp8wr9The Unmasking workbook: grab yours at https://theneurocosmic.com/
Pearlieee Talks Being Unchosen, Breadcrumbing & Hookup Culture | TMBAS EP #1 | TMBAS EP #1
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Being UNHINGED might actually save your life!
In the Mix: UNHINGED
I want MORE!
In the Mix: GIVE ME MORE!
You already know the answer babe...
In the Mix: They don't like you!
I have a confession...
In the Mix: Confessions of a solitary orb
never ask more than ONCE
In the Mix: Respect
If you're 18-29 years old, please listen...
In the Mix: 20s
What if you never find love?
In the Mix : LOVE
All you need is AUDACITY
In the Mix | AUDACITY
This Is Your Wake-Up Call | NeuroCosmic
In this episode, I explain what genuine self-respect truly looks like.On self-respect by Joan Didion - https://sites.gatech.edu/alexburgin/on-self-respect-by-joan-didion/
Never Ever Go Back! | NeuroCosmic
In this episode, I break down how to detach with power, how to stop reaching out, and how to survive the pain of no contact without losing yourself in the process.
Let Them Think Whatever They Want! | NeuroCosmic
You’ll Never Be Free If You’re Scared to Be Misunderstood:Judgment is inevitable, whether you are soft, loud, quiet, or bold — it won’t matter. And the fear isn’t really what they’ll think… it’s whether you can live with how they see you. In this video, I’ll show you why trying to control people’s opinions is keeping you stuck, how to stop explaining yourself, and how to reclaim your freedom — not
You Are Not Stuck, You Are Running From Yourself
You keep trying to move forward… but your life feels stuck on repeat.The patterns. The self-sabotage. The fear. The constant war with yourself.In this video, I’m breaking down exactly how your unhealed inner child is still running the show — through your coping mechanisms, your perfectionism, your low self-worth — and how facing them is the only way to stop sabotaging your life and finally reclaim
The Truth About Loneliness No One Taught You
Loneliness isn’t a flaw. It’s not a moral failure. It’s part of being human—and yet most of us are terrified to feel it. So we run. We distract. We perform. We settle. But loneliness doesn’t leave just because we try to avoid it. In this video, I dive deep into the roots of chronic loneliness, the reasons you still feel it even when you “do all the right things,” and how to face it without shame.
You Keep Choosing the Life You Say You Hate
If you feel like you can’t change, if you’ve been stuck in cycles, habits, or patterns that don’t reflect who you want to be, this is for you.I’m not here to shame you. I’m here to tell you the truth: every day you do nothing is a day you’re co-signing a future you secretly fear.This isn’t a motivational talk. This is a wake-up call.We don’t outgrow the lives we refuse to challenge.We become what
Brutally Honest Advice for People-Pleasers Who Are Done Performing
If you’ve ever found yourself constantly over-explaining, over-apologizing, or putting others’ comfort above your truth—you’re not alone. People-pleasing isn’t just a bad habit. It’s a trauma response. In this video, I break down the deep emotional roots of people-pleasing, how it connects to your attachment style, and how to finally break free. This isn’t surface-level advice. It’s the real, raw
You’re Not Obsessed—You’re Avoiding Your Life
You’re obsessing over someone because it’s easier than facing your own life. This isn’t about them. It’s about your scarcity. Your fear. Your avoidance. The dream you’ve built around someone else because you're too afraid to build your own.In this video, we unpack the real reasons you can’t let go—scarcity mindset, projection, lack of discipline, escapism, and emotional self-abandonment—and I
Your Search for ‘The One’ Is Why You Feel So Alone
What if the love of your life isn’t one person, but many?In this video, I explore the myth of “the one,” the fantasy of being saved, and the deep loneliness that stems from chasing romantic perfection. We talk about why so many people feel unloved, unseen, and disconnected—because they’re looking for a cure, not a connection. You’ll learn how to shift your view of love, heal the hunger beneath it,
It’s Time to Stop Calling Suffering Love
You were taught to equate love with pain. With disappearing. With giving until there’s nothing left. But what if that wasn’t love? What if it was survival—masquerading as devotion?In this episode, we break down the lies you’ve been sold about love, from loyalty that punishes to selflessness that erases you. You’ll learn to recognize the difference between love that heals and love that harms—and ho
Stop Letting Shame Define You—Transform it Into Your Power
Shame can be a powerful and paralyzing emotion that keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns. In this video, we dive deep into the difference between shame and guilt, explore the origin of shame, and discuss how to reframe it into a tool for personal growth. Learn how to take responsibility for your past without letting it define you, and discover how to transform shame into power, healing, and self-c
Your Desire to Be 'Good' Is Destroying Your Life
Are you trapped by the desire to be seen as 'good'? Today, I dive into how society’s expectations and the constant pressure to live up to an ideal version of “good” can destroy your life. I share my personal story of trying to meet these impossible standards and how they led me to lose touch with my true self. It’s time to let go of the cage of ‘goodness’ and embrace who you really are. This painf
Master Detachment—Stop Clinging and Take Back Your Power
We dive into the art of detachment and how to stop clinging to emotional wounds that keep you stuck. Learn how to start choosing yourself over unhealthy attachments. This is not about disconnecting from love, but about healing from within, setting boundaries, and freeing yourself from patterns that no longer serve you. It’s time to step into your true power and authenticity.
When You Can't Cut Them Off—How to Protect Your Peace with Boundaries
In this, I’ll guide you through the essential practice of setting boundaries with the people you can't cut off but still need space from to protect your peace and prioritize your healing. When it feels like you can't escape certain relationships, it's vital to create the emotional distance necessary for growth. Learn how to navigate these tough situations, establish healthy limits, and
Stop Running from Your Past—Grieve to Heal
Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of unresolved pain, unsure of how to grieve your past self or childhood? In this video, we dive deep into the process of grieving your past—an essential step towards healing and reclaiming your true self. Learn how emotional wounds, even from childhood, can shape your present, and why it’s so important to allow yourself to feel and mourn these losses. I'll guide
Stop Hating Yourself—The Action That Will Transform You
Feeling stuck in a cycle of self-hate? You might be waiting for self-love to magically kick in, but the truth is that action comes first. I share how I transformed my self-love game, and you can change yours too. Stop waiting for a perfect moment or for a feeling to show up—start proving to yourself that you are worthy of love, respect, and care through intentional actions. Learn how to gather evi
You Have the Answers—Listen to Yourself
Are you constantly searching for answers outside yourself? What if the clarity you've been looking for is already within you? In this video, we dive deep into the power of self-trust and how you can begin listening to your inner voice for guidance. Too often, we rely on external validation and overthink, but true wisdom comes from within. It’s time to silence the noise and trust yourself. Learn ho
Break Free From Beauty Standards—Start Owning Your Worth
We live in a world that constantly pressures us to meet ever-shifting beauty standards. I know what it feels like to be judged based on appearance, and it can tear you down. But what if you stopped chasing someone else's idea of beauty and started seeing your worth in your own terms? In this video, I’ll share my journey of breaking free from society’s expectations and learning that beauty is not j
Stop Abandoning Yourself—Start Choosing You
In this episode, I dive deep into how you can stop abandoning yourself and start choosing self-respect. Learn how to identify the behaviors that keep you stuck, confront the void inside, and create a life where self-respect and authenticity are non-negotiables.It’s time to break the cycle of self-abandonment and create a life where you’re not just surviving—you’re thriving.
Stop Needing Validation to Feel Enough
You feel like you’re never enough—no matter what you achieve, how you look, or how hard you try. Maybe you’re constantly comparing, chasing validation, or wondering what’s wrong with you. If that’s where you are, this video is your soft landing and your wake-up call.We’ll explore why you’ve internalized feelings of unworthiness, how to stop outsourcing your value, and what it really takes to build
Your All-or-Nothing Mindset Is Keeping You Stuck—Break Free Now
You’ve been waiting for the right time. Planning everything to perfection. But deep down, you know—it’s fear. Fear of failing. Fear of being seen trying. In this video, we unpack the real reason you keep getting stuck in life: the all-or-nothing mindset. I’ll walk you through why perfectionism is a lie, why progress always beats planning, and how to finally move—even when you don’t feel ready. You
Stop Auditioning for Relationships — Start Connecting
You’ve been showing up in your relationships like you’re auditioning—afraid to take up space, afraid to be too much, and desperate to be chosen. But real love doesn’t ask you to perform—it asks you to be real. In this video, we’ll unpack the roots of performance-based connection, how to stop auditioning for love, and what it takes to build mutual, nourishing relationships without losing yourself i
You’re Not Being Kind—You’re Just Afraid
What if I told you your life follows the same laws as the universe? Newton’s motion, gravity, entropy, expansion—these aren’t just scientific ideas. They mirror your chaos, your growth, your momentum. This video will shift your perspective and remind you that even in your breakdowns, you’re becoming. You are the universe in motion. And once you understand these patterns? Nothing in your life will
The Truth About Self-Esteem No One Ever Taught You
You’ve read the books, repeated the affirmations, and glowed up. But still—something’s missing. You feel hollow, disconnected, and at war with yourself.In this episode, I break down the real reason your self-esteem still struggles, no matter how polished your life looks on the outside. We’ll unpack what no one teaches you about building real self-esteem: integrity, responsibility, self-awareness,
You Abandoned Your Dreams to Survive—It’s Time to Come Back
In this episode, we unpack what it means to reconnect with your inner child, reclaim your passion, and stop settling for a life that fits others but starves you. This is your permission to remember who you are—and come home to the version of you that never stopped believing.
Stop Performing for Love—Start Being Loved for Real
If you’ve ever wondered whether people would still love you without the performance, this is for you. In this episode, we’re dismantling the fear of not being loved for who you really are. No more shrinking. No more pretending. No more trying to earn love by being digestible. It’s time to reclaim your worth, stop performing, and start receiving love that actually sees you. Come home to yourself—fu
Stop Making Pain Your Personality
You say you want healing, but you’ve built your identity around your pain. Not because you’re weak—but because brokenness became familiar. In this episode, I’ll challenge the stories you’ve been telling yourself, help you release your attachment to pain, and show you how to rebuild your identity beyond survival. It’s time to stop leading with wounds and start living with intention. Healing isn’t e
The Truth About Confidence No one Told You
Confidence isn't something you can simply fake your way into. True, unshakeable confidence is something that must be built. In this video, I'll guide you through the process of developing it from the inside out by focusing on action, alignment, and evidence. You don't need hype; you need proof. Let's construct your confidence brick by brick. This journey is not about pretending to be confident; it
The People-Pleaser in You Was Born from Rejection. Now Kill It.
If you’ve ever felt like you have to shrink, mute, or manage yourself just to be accepted—this is for you. People-pleasing isn’t kindness. It’s self-erasure. And the more you do it, the less of you there is left. This video is your wake-up call to stop disappearing from your own life. It’s time to stop erasing yourself.
You Don’t Want Love—You Want to Be Picked So You Feel Worthy
You don’t want love—you want to be picked. You want to be validated. You want to be enough. But true love isn’t something you earn—it’s something you receive without performance. This video is for every person who has chased the emotionally unavailable, confused anxiety for love, and turned connection into a competition. It’s time to stop auditioning and start choosing yourself.
You’ve Been Waiting for Closure—But It’s Time to Let Go Without It
You think you’re waiting for closure—but what you really want is validation, acknowledgment, a different ending. But the truth is, closure may never come from them. This video will help you let go, not because it’s fair, but because your peace can’t wait any longer. You deserve to move forward without their permission. Watch this when you’re stuck, grieving, or trying to stop replaying the pain.
Your Breakthrough Requires You to Betray Who You Were Taught to Be
You were taught to be digestible. Easy. Obedient. But your breakthrough—the real one—won’t come from playing it safe. It will require you to betray the roles, expectations, and identities you were handed. The ones that kept you liked, but never truly seen. In this video, we get honest about the cost of becoming yourself—and why it’s worth it. Your freedom doesn’t need permission. Let this be your
No One Is Coming to Save You—That’s Where Your Power Begins
Nobody is coming to save you—and that’s not a tragedy, it’s the beginning of your freedom. This video isn’t about despair. It’s about power. It’s about finally taking ownership of the life you keep waiting to be handed. You don’t need permission. You don’t need rescue. You are the answer. Watch this when you’re ready to stop waiting and start becoming.
You’ve Been Playing a Role. It’s Time to Come Home.
You’ve been performing for so long, you forgot who you are without the mask. This video is your guide back—to truth, to self-love, to the version of you that never needed to earn your worth. You’re not too much. You’re just not home yet. Let’s change that.
it takes a village...
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dear stranger...
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get comfortable with being uncomfortable
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idols...
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a gentle reminder for sensitive souls
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Listen, when you need reassurance
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for anyone dealing with shame
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your strength will not protect you...
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the truth about loneliness that nobody talks about!
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love and other things...
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you are NOT doing life wrong
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don't abandon yourself in a hurry to get over things
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how to survive feeling lost in life...
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vulnerability is the answer✨
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let go and focus on your assignment
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your 20s are your planting season
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