Explore More Intimacy
Kat and Alex Explore More Intimacy 3 episodes Nov 4, 2026
This podcast features honest and open conversations about intimacy, sex, relationships, pleasure, and connection. Hosts Kat and Alex answer real questions from the community, offering straightforward perspectives and practical insight. Their approach is non-judgmental, creating a comfortable space for exploring these topics.
Episodes
S.2, Episode 3. Sensitive Clitoris, Penis Size & The Intimacy Bucket List
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy communityMy clitoris is so sensitive, how can I explore pleasure when direct stimulation feels too intense?Can I safely make my penis bigger?We've been together for years and want to spice things up. What should we put on our list?A relaxed, honest conversation.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real convers
BONUS Men's Sexual Wellbeing
In this special bonus episode, Kat and Alex reflect on their recent London event and the important conversations surrounding the future of men's sexual wellbeing.We talk about the pressures men face around intimacy, confidence and performance, and why we need to start having more honest conversations about what men actually experience.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real conversation.If anythin
S.2, Episode 2. The Blowjob Blueprint, Morning Erections & Face-Sitting
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Is there a simple blueprint for giving a great blowjob?Why are my erections so much stronger in the morning than later in the day?My boyfriend wants me to sit on his face. How do I do it, and how can I feel more confident?A relaxed, honest conversation about oral pleasure, exploring new sensations, morning erections,
S.2, Episode 1. Dry Orgasms, Anal Pleasure & Sexual Confidence
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Why does my partner sometimes have an orgasm without ejaculating? We're curious about trying anal sex, but where do we start?My ex told me I was the worst sex she'd ever had!A relaxed, honest conversation about dry orgasms, ejaculation, anal pleasure, relaxation, trust, consent, communication, performance anxiety, re
Quick Question: Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex?
Kat and Alex look at a question from Explore More Intimacy:“I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong with me?”In this Quick Question, we talk about how personal sexual sensation can be, and how to approach the conversation with curiosity rather than blame or pressure.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered with care.Send us a DM on I
Episode 8. Delayed Ejaculation, Spanking & Long-Distance Intimacy
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wrong?I really like being spanked. Why do I enjoy it, and how do I tell a new partner I want it?I’m in a long-distance relationship. How do we keep the sexual intensity and connection alive when we’re apart?A relaxed, honest conversat
Quick Question: I Know She Likes Oral. How Can I Get Better?
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:I know she likes oral. How can I get better?In this Quick Question, we talk about taking the pressure off the finish, slowing things down, building arousal and paying attention to what she responds to.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymo
Quick Question: What’s The Difference Between A Kink And A Fetish?
Kat and Alex answer a quick question from the Explore More Intimacy community:“What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?”A short, relaxed conversation about what each term means, where they overlap, and why having a particular turn-on doesn’t automatically mean anything is wrong or unusual.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future
Quick Question: Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?In this Quick Question, we talk about why pleasure can feel different with a partner, even when you know what works for you on your own. We explore how pressure, feeling watched and trying to reach a goal can make it harder to stay with what feels good.We also talk about sharing what you enjoy w
Episode 7. Oral Sex, Painful Sex & Changing Masturbation
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:I know she enjoys oral sex, but I’m not helping her reach orgasm. How can I get better at it?Sex still hurts most of the time, even though I’ve had it medically checked. What can I do?I’ve always masturbated the same way and I get frustrated when I try to change it. Where do I even start?A relaxed, honest conversatio
Quick Question: Lasting Longer
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:Lasting longer — what techniques actually work?In this Quick Question, we talk about noticing when you’re getting close, changing pace, taking a pause and using your breath to stay present.We also look at why trying to “last longer” can create pressure, and how to make room for pleasure and connection without watching the clock.A
Episode 6. Why Don’t I Feel Anything During Sex? Fantasies & Losing Erections
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong with me?I fantasise about other people who aren’t my husband — does that mean something is wrong with my relationship?The guy I’m seeing loses his erection during sex — what does that mean?A relaxed, honest conversation about sensation
Episode 5. Body Confidence, Trying New Positions & Lasting Longer
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:How can I make her feel safe during sex when she’s worried about how she looks?We always do the same position — what can we try to make things more exciting?Lasting longer — what techniques actually work?A relaxed, honest conversation about feeling safe and confident during intimacy, bringing more variety into the be
Quick Question: Should I Be Upset My Partner Watches Porn
Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:Should I Be Upset My Partner Watches Porn?A relaxed, honest conversation about porn in relationships, trust, boundaries, attraction and when it may — or may not — become a problem.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question c
Quick Question: A Soft Penis Still Feels Pleasure
Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:If his erection softens, does that mean something is wrong?In this Quick Question, we talk about why erections naturally ebb and flow, why a softer penis can still experience pleasure, and how quickly pressure can pull someone out of sensation and into their head.We also look at what a partner can do in the moment — without panic
Episode 4. Kinks, Sex Too Soon & Low Libido
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?I’ve just started seeing someone I really like and we’ve got loads of chemistry — can having sex too soon ruin it?My libido feels really flat at the moment — is there anything I can actually do?A relaxed, honest conversation about sexual curiosity, new relationships,
Quick Question: We Asked YOU — Would You Swallow?
Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:Would you swallow?This time, we put the question to YOU — and the answers weren’t quite what we expected.A relaxed, honest conversation about preferences, pressure, boundaries and why there’s no one “right” answer when it comes to intimacy.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Got a question for
Quick Question: Nervous Every Time We Have Sex?
Kat and Alex revisit one of the questions from Episode 2 of Explore More Intimacy:Why do I feel nervous every time we have sex?A relaxed, honest conversation about sexual anxiety, pressure, confidence and what can help you feel more comfortable and present during intimacy.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Got a question for a future Quick Question?Send us a DM
Episode 3. Swallowing, Vibrators & Does Everyone Just Want Casual Hookups?
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:My boyfriend says I’m boring if I don’t swallow — am I?I want to bring a vibrator into bed, but I’m worried how my partner will react.Does everyone just want casual hookups? Where do I actually meet someone who wants more?A relaxed, honest conversation about sexual pressure, introducing something new into intimacy, d
Quick Question: Does Penis Size Really Matter?
Kat and Alex revisit one of the most-listened-to questions from Explore More Intimacy:Does penis size really matter?A relaxed, honest conversation about confidence, pressure, pleasure and what actually matters when it comes to intimacy.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Got a question for a future Quick Question?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can sta
Episode 2. Porn, Initiating Intimacy & Sexual Anxiety
Kat and Alex answer three more real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Should I be worried that my boyfriend watches porn?I’m tired of always being the one who initiates — what do I do?Why do I feel nervous every time we have sex?A relaxed, honest conversation about porn in relationships, the pressure of always being the one to initiate intimacy, sexual anxiety and what can help cr
BONUS Testosterone, Different Desires & Reigniting Intimacy
A bonus follow-on conversation with Kat and Alex, answering three more real questions around intimacy, desire and connection.In this episode, they explore:• Can you naturally increase testosterone?• What happens when one partner is more adventurous than the other?• How do you reignite intimacy when things have gone a little flat?A relaxed, honest conversation about desire, confidence, mismatched w
BONUS Performance Anxiety, Erections & Lasting Longer
A bonus conversation with Alex Gear on performance anxiety, confidence and what really happens when pressure gets in the way of pleasure.Before Kat and Alex started recording Explore More Intimacy together, Alex joined Kat as a guest for an honest conversation about performance anxiety.They explore:• What performance anxiety actually is• Why it can affect erections and ejaculation• How pressure an
Episode 1. Does Penis Size Matter? Orgasms & Sexual Compatibility
Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Does penis size really matter?Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?Do we actually need to be sexually compatible?A relaxed, honest conversation about confidence, pleasure, communication and what really matters when it comes to intimacy.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a questi
