Kinkyboys Podcast
This podcast explores the gay BDSM and kink scene, examining the ins and outs, kinks, and roles within it. Through interviews with experienced kinksters, it highlights unique fetishes and personal experiences. The show offers an open and educational perspective on a frequently misunderstood community.
Episodes
UNLOCKED! Kink and Gender
As a Gift for international Nonbinary Day, we are unlocking our old bonus episode where @gearthatshines.bsky.social and @Buck Discuss all the ways kink can intersect with gender exploration.
Hypno 5 - Question's Roundtable
A round-table of experienced Hypnotists and subjects convene to answer your questions!
Special thanks to our special guest Hosts:
HairyHypnotist
Coach Apollo
Doggo Mike
Slimlthr
Gooning
Sampson joins us to explain Gooning.
video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/157371502/
Preparing for kink Events
Video Version https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-104-for-155164660
Its Kink event season!
So we are talking about preparing for events. Packing, what to take and what to leave, planning your time, and will any amount of planing survive contact with life?
Thankyou to our good boys: https://kinkyboyspodcast.com/good-boys/
UNLOCKED: Darklands Travel Vlog 2025
Unlocked from Our Patreon, last years video travel log
https://video.kinkyboyspodcast.com/w/ob6tfGAGfdBFihtP9j3orx
Bating
Video Version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/kb-102-bator-bro-150953764
Nick woof joins us to explain both Bating as a fetish but also The culture around Bator Parties.
Bator Bro info: https://linkin.bio/batorbro/
Good boys:
https://kinkyboyspodcast.com/good-boys/
Chapters
[00:00:00] – Baitor Bros
[00:01:19] – What Is a Bating Bro Party? Jerk-Off Club Rules, Tantr
Bondage for Bigger Guys
Video Version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bondage-for-guys-146602073
Anthoni Joins us to talk about learning Bondage and suspension for bigger and heavier guys.
you can find Anthoni at: https://www.instagram.com/anthoni_lthr/
Thankyou to our Good Boys: https://kinkyboyspodcast.com/good-boys/
Hypno 4: Mantras
we look into why repetition is powerful and effective as Visible restraint, aka Daniel, returns to discus this aspect of hypno play.
you can see Visible restraints hypno introduction series on mantras here:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0hE2JTPBngMzqY9_iRIJLv-sk7Fodr4w&si=YvpOyVb-54SY-pME
99 Listener Mail and Voicemails
GoGo Boys
We are joined by Sampson and Indigo as they talk through their experiences working as GoGo boys.
video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/98-gogo-boys-133881630
Links:
Sampson: https://linktr.ee/sampsonnightly
Indigo: https://linktr.ee/mistermoopup
Good Boys:
DaddyDogCibo
Orcbearperv
Frankie L.
Greg S.
Southern Suiter
MrHooper
Edgar G-B
Devon Ch.
Dia
97: The Leatherman’s Handbook with Safeword Press
Jeremy of No safeword press Joins us to Discuss the challenges of bringing classic Leatherbooks back to mainstream print, and the importance of keeping our communities history alive, warts and all.
Jocks and Thongs
Buck, Adam, Jimmy and Sampson gather to have a roundhouse chat about Jocks and Thongs and related underwear.
95: Nullos
Craig and Buff are joined by Versasspunk and Pup Curious to discuss Nullification.
UNLOCKED: 2024 Darklands travel Vlog (SD)
UNLOCKED for our non-patron subscribers. An SD version of last years travel vlog of Darlands
94: State of the Kinky Net 2025
MndFcuk joins Craig and Adam for our yearly state of the kinky net discussion.
93: Take a Stand
Jimmy Basset (He/Him) joins the show to discuss his personal time as a bootblack and the Take a Stand Event.
92: Fisting
This month we are Talking about fisting with Joe. We discuss what a beginer needs to know about fisting.
Minisode: Hanky Experiment
im trying out a little video episode for you all.
91: Pumping
Craig (They/He) Sits down with Kai (He/They) to discuss Pumping.
video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/114060427
Chapters
00:00:03 - Welcome to the Kinky Boys Podcast
00:00:35 - Introduction to Pumping
00:01:22 - The Mechanics of Pumping
00:04:51 - Pumping and Kink Culture
00:11:41 - Personal Experiences with Pumping
00:17:01 - Gender Affirmation and Body Modification
00:32:19 - Th
90: Red Flags in Subs
Video version: https://www.patreon.com/posts/90-red-flags-in-112191425 This week we talk about red flags in potential subs. CW: we do discuss instances of abuse. Chapters 00:00:00 – Patreon Readouts 00:01:12 – Intro 00:07:33 – Not letting the dom ‘leave character’ or act softer 00:17:25 – Not being able to articulate or understand limits 00:22:28 – Responsibility 00:24:10 – CW […]
89: Clown Fetish
Barney, aka the muckle Stoater, joins us to talk about the wonderful world of clown fetish.
88: Cow and Bull Roleplay
Adam returns with new guest Mndfcuk to talk about their experiences and knowledge of Hucows, people doing cow and Bull roleplay. Video version can be found at: https://www.patreon.com/posts/106500804 Thanks to our good boys Aorchis Harry S. Ryan G. Dr Scott Mark L Greg GDstPete Stuart John N. Jim Thiktool splemb Orsetto Christian C. Kelly B […]
UNLOCKED: Gender and kink
Unlocked from our bonus feed for all listeners
Scottish leather boy Adam returns to discuss gender
Thanks to our good boys
Aorchis
Harry S.
Ryan G.
Dr Scott
Mark L
Greg GDstPete
Stuart
John N.
Jim
Thiktool
splemb
Orsetto
Christian C.
Kelly B
MARK G.
Daniel M.
Silas S.
Ergo
Juha N.
Off
Knotty Texan
paul f.
Patrick M
Kris S
Jack
Deco V.
87: Beginner’s Bathhouse Guide
We Give a beginners guide to gay saunas/bathhouses. They go over what you can expect, and how pickup etiquette functions, and how to navigate the space.
86: Polyamory 101
We cover the basics of polyamory, what is it? The types of relationships models are there and what communication skills might be needed.
85: State of the Kinky Net 2024
We come together to discuss the current state and trajectory of the kinky internet. (00:00:00)start (00:01:15)The Interview we discuss state of the apps 2024 (00:08:31)Twitter we talk about whats happened with twitter over the past year (00:11:51)Where People are going we discuss mastodon, buluesky weighing up the pros and cons for each and what sort […]
84: Leatherclubs with London Leathermen
I am joined by friends and fellow members of the London leathermen to discuss our experiences with the club.
83: Private Parties
Visiblerestraint returns to talk about his experience running and attending private play parties https://visiblerestraint.com/ Good boy patrons Zero Stuart John N. Jim Thiktool Dom J. splemb Orsetto Christian C. Kelly Biers MARK G. Daniel M. Silas S. Ergo Juha N. Off Knotty Texan paul f. Patrick M. Kris S. Jack Deco V.
82: How to get started in the community
Craig and David give advice on how to take your first steps into your local community
81: Body Mods
We go into an element of edge play where Rugger joins us to talk about using body mods in play and power dynamics.
80: Suits
Southernsuiter joins Craig to talk about his suit fetish.
79 Hypno 3: Brainwashing
This episode, both Hairyhypnotist and visibleRestraint return, along with boy Status, to talk about long term conditioning with hypno. aka brainwashing
78: Bondage with VisibleRestraint
Craig sits down and talks with Visiblerestraint about his experiences and philosophy around bondage. Visiblerstraint can be found at: https://visiblerestraint.com/ Thanks to our Goodboy Patrons: Splemb Orsetto AspiringDom Brian R. Kelly B. Nicholas B. Abc1c2 Mark G. Daniel M. James E. Absolution Gareth Ergo Juha N. Off Knotty Texan paul f. Patrick M. Bullpup Nick […]
77: Mentor me, Daddy
Returning guest D4ddy T joins us to talk about his experiences being a mentor in the leather community.
76: Bully Play
Today Sorn aka OrcinNewyork Joins Craig to explain the joys and mechanics of Bullying play. Thankyou to our goodboy Patrons: Orsetto AspiringDom Brian R. Kelly B. Nicholas B. Wane B. Abc1c2 Mark G. Daniel M. James E. Absolution Jack Gareth Ergo Juha N. jmw Luke S. Off Knotty Texan paul f. Patrick M. Bullpup Nick […]
75: Kink in the Gym
Craig and David Discuss kinks and scene ideas related to the gym.
Forced workouts, naked workouts, muscle worship and locker room cruising.
Thanks to @musclebull@woof.group for providing the photo for this episode's cover art.
UNLOCKED: kink without gear
As a seasonal gift to you all, we are unlocking a bonus episode for all our listeners. Hairy Hypnotist joins us again to talk about what it’s like to be […]
74: We’re NGL to you
We answer some anonymous listener questions. Thanks to our goodboy patreons: Daniel M. James E. Absolution Jack Gareth Ergo Juha N. jmw Luke S. Off Knotty Texan paul f. Patrick M. Bullpup Nick B. Kellhus Buster Deco V.
UNLOCKED BONUS: Scenes we want to see – Part 1
This Patreon only episode has been unlocked by our sponsor LED queens. Thanks to our Goodboy patrons: James E. Absolution Jack Pup Nixie Gareth Ergo Juha N. jmw Luke S. […]
73: Chastity 3. Domming while Locked
The blogpost that inspired this episode: https://switch.london/diary-of-a-chastity-dom-joining-teamlocked/ SwitchLDN, aka Sean, joins us today to talk about his time being locked whilst continuing to Dom others. We cover his experiences being locked, why he chose to do this, and how he worked it into play with his subs. Thanks to our Goodboy patrons: Jack Pup Nixie […]
72: Himbos
Returning guest Banjo joins us to discuss himbos. Why they seem to be having a cultural moment, why someone would be into playing into the stereotype of the himbo, what can himbos tell us about society’s view of intelligence, and what examples we can see in popular culture Thank you to our good boy patreons: […]
71: Pup Snap on Fetish Photography
Pup Snap joins us to answer your questions about fetish photography and to talk about his process Snap can be found at: https://pupsnap.net/ https://twitter.com/PupSnapUK https://www.instagram.com/pupsnapuk/ Thanks to our good boy patrons for making this show possible: Matt Pup Nixie Silas S. Philip P. Gareth Ergo Bullpup Juha N. JMW Duy V. Luke S. Off Knotty […]
70: Head Shaving and Haircuts
This episode, Chris from the teabags and joystixxx podcast to talk to us about head shaving scenes and enforced hairstyles. We talk the scene, the aftercare, and the idea of doing forms of play that lasts weeks. Thanks to our good boy patrons: Philip P. Gareth Ergo Bullpup Juha N. JMW Duy V. Luke S. […]
69: kink Integration
English leather Master joins us today to talk about how to integrate kink with the rest of your life in a healthy way. Thanks to our Good boy level patrons: Ergo Juha N. JMW Duy V. Luke S. Off Knotty Texan Paul F. Kurt A. Patric M. Buster
68: Piss
We talk water sports and everything piss-play. Patreon: patreon.com/kinkyboyspod Thank you to our Goodboy level patrons: Juha N. JMW Duy V. Luke S. Off Knotty Texan Paul F. Kurt A. Patric M. Buster Connor B. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
Listener Message
A quick note for our listeners https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod
67: Cat Play
We are joined by Felinyx to discuss Cat play, gender and role reversal. Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod Thanks to our Good Boys: Luke S Off Knotty Texan Paul F. Kurt A. Patrick M. Buster Conor B
66: 24/7 Slavery
Slave Phil joins us to talk about the joys and challenges of being a slave 24/7
65: When you’re a Dog, not a Puppy
The wonderful Banjo joins us today to talk through many topics, but first and foremost why he considers himself a Dog, not a Puppy. We also go over banjo’s more niche fetishes, talk about our pop culture sexual awakenings, and his experience being bisexual on the kink scene. Special thanks to our good boy listeners: […]
64: Kinky Business with Fetishdaddy Gear
This week Craig sits down with Ollie from fetishdaddy gear as we hear why and how he got into making fetish gear. Artwork by Matt spike You can find fetish daddys website at https://fetishdaddy.co.uk/ We would like to thank our Goodboy level patrons: Bullpup Buster To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact […]
Halloween Bonus: Monsterfucking
This Halloween, we three hosts gather to discuss Monsterfucking. Orcs, Demons, aliens, tentacles and cryptids in depth.
63: Trampling
Logan joins our host Craig to talk the listeners through the fetish of trampling. What it is and how to get into it safely. Logan also talks about setting up and running his own social network for fetishes, the MxM Network: https://mxmifc.com/ Thanks to our Patreon good boys: Bullpup Buster To contact the show, we […]
62: Kinky and Autistic
Si from the teabags and joystixxx podcast comes over to talk about a very big, and very personal topic for the both of us. We go through how being on the autistic spectrum intersects with our kink lives and fetishes. We give an explanation of what living with ASD can be like and do a […]
61: Kink and Work
Craig and Arhzur look at ways to ensure two parts of your life don’t clash, and what to do to keep yourself safe from employers finding out about your kinky life. https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
60: Help! My partner is Kinky
Have you just found out your partner has a fetish that you previously had no idea about? Seems from a lot of mail we have received, this is quite common, so we give some advice.
59: #FatBoySummer
With so many people putting on weight thanks to lockdown, we thought it’s best to talk about loving your body even if you’re not entirely happy with how it looks now. Master David joins us to talk about the methods to help with positive self-image, the roots of disliking your body and our own personal […]
58: SHAME!
content warning: uses of the F-slur and discussion of emotional distress. A listener email leads us to talk at length about internalized shame about our kinks.The places shame can lead you and the catharsis of being openly yourself. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
57: Pony Play with Mr Kristofer
The Internets favorite daddy Kristofer Weston joins us today to talk to us about his interest in pony play.
56: Listener Mail on Findom, Part 2
Our second episode on our listener mail. We talk at length about if Findom is a form of sex-work and go off on a weird little tangent on bitcoin paypal.me/musculature Recon.com/busterBDSM To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
55: Listener mail on Findom, Part 1
We received a lot of feedback about Buster’s Findom episode, so we have dedicated an episode (well, it ended up being 2 episodes long) to answer your questions and one or two criticisms. warning, towards the end we get capital P political and talk about our own political positions. Buster can be found at: paypal.me/musculature […]
Episode 54: Hypno 2, Going Deeper
We revisit erotic hypnosis and talk with David, a professional Erotic hypnotist, to pick his brain on the subject. David takes us through what hypnosis is, and the many ways you can safely use it. We also talk about his own efforts to build a space for the online community of guys into the fetish. […]
Episode 53: Dungeon Design
This episode Craig and Arzur talk about designing your own play-space.
Episode 52: Having Gay sex
To Donate to the Outside Project: https://www.goldengiving.com/secure/donation/the-outside-project Today we interview author David Ledain about his new book: Having Gay Sex: A Guide to Male Homosexual Sex. David can be reached at: https://twitter.com/DavidLedain The book can be found HERE To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
Episode 51: Cuck and Bull story
DomtopLad explains his role as a bull Cucking other men.
Episode 50: Spanking
David Takes us through the 101 of spanking. We cover whats sexy about spanking, what implements you can use, how to structure a scene, safety and aftercare for a bruised ass. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax
Episode 49: Cop Uniforms in The Time of BLM
Today we discuss the history between the Gay leather community and the police, and the changing societal context around fetishising police uniforms. 00:00 Intro 04:45 Nazi Uniforms 08:45 History between LGBT people and Police 12:30 Uniform Fetish 14:45 UK Vs US policing 19:08 Changing trends in leather 24:00 LGBT’s reclaiming iconography 30:15 Queering Cop iconography […]
Episode 48: When To Stop
This Episode we do a deep dive into knowing when to stop. We talk limits, consent considerations how to set healthy boundaries with other and within yourself. Most importantly how to recognize when things are getting a bit out of hand. CW: this episode features a live humiliation and degradation scene between Buster and Touko […]
Episode 47: Findom
Returning guest Buster is joined by Bootblack Touko to Discuss the ins and outs of what a Healthy Findom relationship can look like.We discuss:- What is a turn on about using money for domination and the psychology of money as a form of power.- The difference between a healthy findom relationship and taking advantage of […]
Episode 46: Musk
Today we talk about musk! The wonderful world of scent play. What is musk 0.43 The psychology of a scent fetish 3.15 The science of scent 4.42 Play suggestions 10.12 safety 15.28 To contact the show, we can be found at: kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com https://twitter.com/kinkyboyspod https://www.facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast https://woof.group/@kinkyboyspod https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod The back
Episode 45: Cybersex and Teledildonics
This episode we talk about all the fun you can have in front of a webcam, all the shiny new internet enabled toys available and how to maintain Dom/sub dynamics over a distance.
Episode 44: Electro
In the First of our 2020 season, we have Zentai Spot on to talk us through everything you need to know about Electro play.
Episode 43: Cringe Sex Stories
We read through listeners most embarrassing sex stories and talk about what went wrong and what can be learned from them.
Episode 42 Bloodplay and Vampires
As a bit of seasonal fun for Halloween, we Have returning guest Eddie on to talk about his interest in bloodplay and Vampires! Check out the NSFW twitter choose your own adventure created by my friend Ox: https://twitter.com/HisNameIsOx/status/1181911565001465856 Check out Eddie’s blog here: http://anexperimentintruth.blogspot.com/ To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us […]
kb livestream: Event Drop
Recording of our Livestream on ways to plan for event drop
Episode 41: Chastity 2: Keyholder Boogaloo
Arhzur takes us through chastity play from the dom’s side. We talk about how to keep a boy in chastity, the appeal of chastity, how to size up a boys cage correctly and safety concerns. Contact us: kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com twitter: @kinkyboyspod facebook: /kinkyboyspodcast discord: https://discord.gg/FT4CPXT Support us: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod
Episode 40: Listener Mail on gimp play and balloon fetishes
support us on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod This week we answer listener mail! 1:53- Tristian asks about Gimps, Drones, and the relationship between rubber and leather 25:21- Ray writes in to talk about His balloon popping fetish and fellow ‘Looners’ 37:50- Sexy and kinky videogames Contact us: kinkyboyspodcast@gmail.com twitter: @kinkyboyspod facebook: /kinkyboyspodcast discord: h
Episode 39: Mr Leather UK Part 2
Continuing on with our discussion about the issues facing the leather community we Talk about how to keep spaces for LGBT+ and kink communities both in the real world and online. We also delve into the role Community Titles play as platforms for change.
Episode 38: Mr Leather UK Part 1: Buster vs The Algorithm
Not our normal kind of Episode. This time around I interview Mr Leather UK 2019, Buster, as we do a deep dive into the evolving state of our community and how Algorithms and corporate platforms are threatening kink and queer communities
Episode 37: Mask for Mask
Guest Goma talks about his longstanding fetish for masks and how they are used in his play.
Episode 36: Real Clear Fetish
Like the show? support us on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod Today we talk with Ralf about the real Clear fetish initiative and the London sober social. We talk about the the reasons for a sober social, the connection of queer spaces and alcohol, the meth epidemic in gay men and Ralf’s own story.
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