Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend
A podcast hosted by a mixed heritage couple, Faris and Josh, exploring race, relationships, and the LGBTQ+ community. The show originated from late-night conversations and has evolved from a garage setup to a studio in London. It aims to provide a space for listeners to enjoy, laugh, and escape reality. New episodes are released every Monday.
Episodes
Growing up Gay in Jordan, Israeli Pinkwashing & Gay Arab Identity : Hasan Kilani
In this episode, we’re joined by Palestinian-Jordanian queer activist and writer Hasan Kilani for an honest and open conversation about growing up gay in Jordan, LGBTQ+ life in the Middle East, Palestine, Israeli pinkwashing and the complicated relationship between sexuality, identity and political liberation.Hasan challenges the narratives often pushed about queer people in Arab and Muslim commun
Mixed-Race Identity, Colourism & Racial Fetishisation: Dr Chantelle Jessica Lewis
In this episode, we’re joined by sociologist, writer and researcher Dr Chantelle Lewis for a wide-ranging conversation about mixed-race identity, Blackness, whiteness, family, colourism and the complicated realities of growing up between different racial worlds.Chantelle takes us into her PhD research on Black mixed-race families who moved from multicultural cities into predominantly white suburba
Gay Hierarchies, Racial Fetishisation & Black Masculinity: Topher Campbell
In this episode, we’re joined by artist, filmmaker and activist Topher Campbell for a wide-ranging conversation about Black queer history, race, sexuality, masculinity, fetishisation and the experiences that shaped his understanding of identity.Topher takes us back to growing up in care before moving in with his Jamaican mother as a teenager, navigating religion, sexuality and eventually finding h
Code-Switching, Internalised Homophobia & Black Queer Identity: Laquarn Lewis
In this episode, we’re joined by actor Laquarn Lewis, known for *What It Feels Like for a Girl* and *Jamie Johnson*, for an honest conversation about growing up Black and gay, code-switching, masculinity and finding your place in a queer community that doesn’t always reflect your own experiences.Laquarn opens up about the reality of being a Black queer actor and why opportunities can still feel li
Sexual Shame, Queer Therapy & The Gay Loneliness Epidemic: Dhiren Doshi-Smith
In this episode, we’re joined by therapist Dhiren Doshi-Smith for an honest conversation about therapy, queer identity, race, culture, sex and the shame so many gay men carry without even realising it. Dhiren specialises in working with queer, neurodiverse people of colour and explains why traditional approaches to therapy don’t always account for people whose identities are shaped by family, reli
Closeted Men, Bacha Bazi & Queer South Asians: Saad Zain
In this episode, we’re joined by Saad Zain for an honest and at times provocative conversation about growing up gay across Pakistan, Kazakhstan, Dubai and London and what queer life can really look like in cultures where sexuality is rarely spoken about openly.Saad opens up about knowing he was gay from an early age, growing up surrounded by shame around his sexuality and why he believes there’s a
Pretty Boys, Modelling & Coming out: Tyrell Trey
In this episode, we’re joined by Tyrell Trey for an honest conversation about modelling, sexuality, mixed-race identity, music, dating and the long process of figuring out who you actually are when you’ve spent years becoming what other people expect from you.Tyrell opens up about entering the modelling industry at just 16, going from feeling like the “ugly” kid growing up in a predominantly white
Black Masculinity, Hookup Culture & The Gay Blueprint: Andrew Akuruka
In this episode, we're joined by Andrew Akuruka, author of The Gay Blueprint, for an honest and at times challenging conversation about gay identity, masculinity, race, sex and the expectations we place on ourselves and each other.Andrew opens up about knowing he was gay from a young age, but only coming out to his Nigerian mum decades later. He reflects on growing up around religion, fearing
A*POP, Top Shortage & Heartstopper
After months of back-to-back guests, we're finally back with a solo episode... and there's a lot to catch up on.From sneaking into Tyla's exclusive A*POP listening party in London and sharing our first impressions of her new album, to debating Beyoncé, Jay-Z and celebrity culture.We also dive into one of the biggest debates in the LGBTQ+ community: is there really a "top shorta
Queer Africans, Masculinity & IKAG: Blessing Kingsley
In this exclusive episode, we're joined by I Kissed A Girl season two's Blessing, one of the breakout personalities from the series. Known for her confidence, warmth and unapologetic masculinity, Blessing opens up about her journey on the show, finding community with other masc lesbians and why I Kissed A Girl became far more than just a dating experience.From navigating life inside the
Secret Relationships, Indian Identity & The Messy Masseria: Nikita Bharath
In this exclusive episode, we're joined by I Kissed A Girl season two's Nikita Bharath for her first ever podcast appearance. As the only contestant from the series still in a relationship, Nikita finally opens up about finding love with Pippa, keeping their relationship secret for almost a year and what really happened after the cameras stopped rolling.From navigating multiple connectio
Heartbreak, OCD & Kissing Girls: Faye Mcgrath
Faye McGrath first captured the nation's hearts on BBC's I Kissed A Girl, where her warmth, humour and vulnerability made her one of the standout personalities of the series. In this episode, Faye joins us to reflect on her experience on the show, navigating rejection in front of the nation and the deeper emotional journey that shaped her long before reality TV. From falling for Elise, f
Cults, Santería & Reclaiming KFC: Cain Culto
Cain Culto is a queer artist, musician and creative whose work explores religion, spirituality, masculinity and identity. In this episode, we sit down with Cain to discuss growing up gay in the evangelical church, religious trauma, coming out, deconstructing Christianity and how he transformed years of shame into powerful music and art.From leading worship as a young church leader and preaching ag
Femphobia, Topping & Gay Pop Idols: JORDY
JORDY first caught the internet's attention with viral pop hits like Nice Things and Story of a Boy, but behind the infectious hooks is an artist navigating identity, masculinity and what it really means to be seen. In this episode, we're joined by singer-songwriter JORDY to talk about life as an openly gay artist, making music without compromise, and the journey behind his new album.Fro
Turning Green, Mixed Race Identity & Kissing Boys: Ruben Bø Dower
Ruben Bø Dower first caught the attention of audiences on I Kissed A Boy, but behind the iconic green looks and unforgettable fashion is a thoughtful conversation about identity, creativity and belonging. In this episode, we're joined by artist, designer and creator Ruben Bø Dower to talk about life after reality TV, finding confidence in who you are, and the journey towards self-acceptance.F
Party Culture, Skins & The Sober Gay: Siôn Meirion
The Sober Gay has built a thriving online and real-life community for LGBTQ+ people exploring sobriety, and in this episode, we're joined by Welsh creator and community organiser Sion Meirion to talk about his journey away from alcohol and drugs, the realities of queer social culture, and why he created a space where sober and sober-curious people can connect. From documenting his first 100 d
The Buzz, Ireland & The Kinkiest Boots: Liam McEvoy
Fresh from the West End production of Kinky Boots, we’re joined by performer, dancer and content creator Liam McEvoy for a conversation about queer joy, chosen family, musical theatre and finding “the buzz” in life.From landing his dream role in Kinky Boots and performing across the UK, Europe and the West End, to becoming Bruiser the dog in Legally Blonde, Liam shares the journey from growing up
Sinners, Orisha’s & The Demonisation of Africa: Adwoa & Solomon
We’re joined by artists, storytellers and creators Adwoa and Solomon for a fascinating conversation exploring African mythology, folklore, spirituality and the stories that colonialism tried to erase.From how they met at university and built a creative partnership together, to using art as a way to reconnect with their Ghanaian and Nigerian heritage, Adwoa and Solomon share how a passion project g
Mighty Hoopla, Chosen Family & The Gay Poodle Algorithm: Glyn Fussell
We’re joined by Glyn Fussell, creator of Mighty Hoopla and co-founder of Sink The Pink, for a hilarious, emotional and deeply honest conversation about queer culture, identity and building spaces where people truly feel like they belong.From creating one of the UK’s biggest and most loved queer festivals to taking Mighty Hoopla around the world, Glyn shares the journey behind building something th
Smoggie Queens, Gay Brothers & The Stolen Parcel: Phil Dunning & Elijah Young
Smoggie Queens is the chaotic, camp and heartfelt BBC comedy following a group of queer friends navigating life, love and absolute mayhem in Middlesbrough and in this episode, we’re joined by creator and star Phil Dunning alongside actor Elijah Young to talk all about it.From the inspiration behind the show and how the characters came to life, to filming inside real queer spaces in the North East,
Breaking Patterns, Masculinity & Little Mix: Claudimar Neto
We’re joined by choreographer and creative director Claud for a deeply honest conversation about identity, healing, relationships and what it means to truly come home to yourself. From growing up in Angola and moving to the UK at a young age, to navigating queerness, family expectations and life in the spotlight, Claud reflects on the experiences that shaped him into the person he is today. In thi
Transitioning, Masculinity & Gender Euphoria: Zelah Glasson
We’re joined by Zelah, a Trans man, content creator and online coach, for an open and honest conversation about transitioning, identity and what it really means to navigate masculinity in today’s world.In this episode, Zelah shares his journey from growing up as a queer woman to transitioning later in life, reflecting on how identity can evolve over time rather than arriving as a single defining m
The Arab World, Breaking Taboos & Comedy: Shaden Fakih
We’re joined by Shaden, a fearless Arab comedian and outspoken voice on identity, politics and freedom of expression, for a raw and unfiltered conversation about queerness, culture and resistance.In this episode, Shaden opens up about growing up in the Arab world and navigating the tension between cultural identity and personal freedom. From challenging taboos around sex, religion and language to
Attitude Magazine, Diversity & Cultural Change: Cliff Joannou
We’re joined by Cliff, Editor-in-Chief of Attitude Magazine and Rolling Stone UK, for an honest and insightful conversation about identity, media, community and what it really means to create cultural impact.In this episode, Cliff reflects on his journey through the media industry. From working in queer nightlife magazines to leading some of the most influential publications in the UK. He shares h
Autism, Culture & Power Structures: Joris Lechêne
We’re joined by Joris for a powerful conversation on neurodiversity, identity & the systems shaping our understanding of the world.In this episode, Joris shares his perspective as a neurodivergent creator, unpacking how autism, ADHD and mental health are often misunderstood through a purely medical and Western lens. As part of Autism Awareness Month, we explore what it really means to be neuro
NAFS, Safe Spaces & SWANA Creatives: Drew Demetry
We’re joined by Drew Demetry, founder of NAFS, for a powerful conversation about SWANA identity, queerness & community.In this episode, Drew shares his journey growing up between Denmark and Egypt, navigating religion, culture and sexuality. He opens up about being outed, family rejection and reconciliation, and how those experiences shaped his understanding of identity and belonging.We also e
Masculinity, FLOODLINES & Beirut: Saleem Haddad
We’re joined by Saleem Haddad, novelist and writer, for a deeply personal conversation about identity, masculinity, love and what it means to belong.In this episode, Saleem shares his journey growing up across the Middle East, navigating queerness in conservative environments and the complicated relationship he had with masculinity. From being drawn to traditional ideas of masculinity to later cha
UK Black Pride, Intersectionality & Queer Activism: Lady Phyll
We’re joined by Lady Phyll, activist, community organiser and founder of UK Black Pride, the largest Pride celebration for Black and people of colour in Europe.In this powerful conversation, Lady Phyll shares the story behind building UK Black Pride after being laughed at and told there would “never be a Black Pride in the UK.” What started as a small grassroots gathering has grown into a movement
The Empire, Wakanda & Ancient History: Helio Figueiredo
This week we sit down with Helio, essayist, historian and cultural commentator, for a conversation that completely reshapes the way we think about empire, masculinity, queerness and power.From Ancient Rome’s obsession with dominance and “bottom shaming”, to Emperor Hadrian deifying his lover Antinous… from Alexander the Great’s erased queer relationships to the ongoing exploitation of the Democrat
Archetypes, Shame Cycles & The White Gaze: Josh Rivers
We're BUSY BEING BLACK! This week we sit down with Josh Rivers, creator and host of the award-winning podcast Busy Being Black, a platform centring queer Black joy, intimacy, spirituality and political consciousness.Josh shares the origin story behind Busy Being Black, from a deeply personal dark night of the soul to building one of the most vital spaces for queer Black storytelling in the UK
Meet Cute Cakes, The "L" word & Weddings: Jenny
In this episode, we’re joined by Jenny, founder of Meet Cute Cakes in Manchester, for a funny, intimate and unexpectedly deep conversation about love, identity, anxiety and building a life on your own terms.Jenny talks about growing up, coming out, and why she’s never quite connected with labels, exploring queerness, internalised homophobia, and what it means to feel secure in your identity withou
Cat Dads, Bootylicious & TFL: Lupin in London
In this episode, we’re joined by Jerome and Jacques, partners, creators and the people behind the viral cat duo Lupin and Rajah.They share how a love story that began on a nightclub dance floor grew into a life together, a creative partnership, and an unexpected online following built around joy, softness and visibility in public spaces.Jack opens up about growing up in France in the 1990s, experi
Muslim, Jewish & A Love Story: Ali & Adam
In this episode, we’re joined by Ali and Adam, a married queer couple whose relationship sits at the intersection of faith, politics, identity and love.Ali, who is Muslim, Palestinian and Turkish, and Adam, who is Jewish, share how they met, fell in love and built a life together and how their marriage became a flashpoint for online debate, media attention and, at times, serious hostility.They ref
Masculinity, Spoken Word & The Birds and the Bees: myndstate
In this episode, we’re joined by myndstate, a spoken word artist who uses poetry to explore identity, sexuality and what it means to grow up in a world that doesn’t always leave space for difference.myndstate shares how he found his voice through hip-hop, wordplay and storytelling and how writing became a form of therapy as he came to terms with being queer. He opens up about growing up without re
New Music, Tomboys & The Industry: Malika (Hamzaa)
In this episode, we’re joined by singer and songwriter Malika (Hamza) for a raw, funny and deeply honest conversation about music, mental health, identity and becoming who you really are.Malika opens up about growing up with depression, ADHD and anxiety, and how songwriting became the only way she could truly express what was going on in her mind. We talk about dropping out of school, going viral
Colonialism, Queer South Asians & Hierarchies: Dr Rohit K Dasgupta
In this episode, we’re joined by Dr Rohit Dasgupta, associate professor at the London School of Economics, queer activist and local councillor, for a vital conversation about caste, class, colonialism and queerness.Rohit reflects on growing up gay in India, navigating caste, colourism and class hierarchies, and how these systems didn’t disappear online, they were replicated through dating apps, di
Palestine, Arab Stereotypes & Masculinity: Elias Jahshan
In this episode, we’re joined by Elias Jahshan, a Palestinian-Lebanese journalist, editor and writer, for a powerful conversation about identity, belonging and reclaiming narrative.Elias opens up about growing up Arab, queer and deaf, navigating racism, homophobia and disability and the deep tension many queer Arabs face when asked to separate parts of who they are in order to be accepted.We explo
Gay Relationship, Engagement & Social Media: Jake & Max
In this episode, we sit down with Jake & Max, a couple whose love story has captured hearts across the internet. What started with a cautious first date and clashing attachment styles evolved into a partnership defined by growth, healing and genuine joy.From childhood wounds and emotional shutdowns to lockdown intensity, travel adventures and building an online presence rooted in authenticity,
Brixton, HIV & Queer History: Marc Thompson
In this AIDS Awareness Day special, we sit down with Marc Thompson HIV activist, community leader and one of the most vital voices in Black queer British history. Born and raised in Brixton, Marc has spent four decades reshaping the landscape of HIV awareness, queer visibility, and racial justice in the UK. His story is one of survival, disruption, joy, and relentless advocacy.From coming out at 1
MAFS, Relationships & Chameleons: Keye Luke
In this episode, we sit down with Keye, the breakout star of Married at First Sight UK whose humour, honesty, and emotional depth have made him one of the show’s most unforgettable personalities. From navigating a painful divorce in his early twenties to rebuilding his identity after a mental health crisis, Keye opens up with disarming wit about relationships, people pleasing, sexuality, trauma, a
Improv, Modern Gay Life & Hey Big Guy: Jake Cornell
In this episode, we sit down with comedian and writer Jake Cornell, the quick-witted mind behind Hey Big Guy and one of the most refreshing queer voices in comedy today. From coming out at 16 to finding his community later in life, Jake opens up about identity, shame, body image, dating, and the hilarious chaos of gay adulthood.We dive deep into what it truly means to find your voice, the pressure
Femininity, Grief & Re-Defining Sexuality: Alexis & Liam
In this episode, we sit down with married couple Alexis & Liam, whose relationship has existed across identities, labels and multiple “coming outs.”Alexis shares her true timeline: first identifying as straight, then gay, then trans, then returning to gay, then finally stepping into womanhood again, this time for herself, not to make the world more comfortable. Liam opens up about how his own
Faith, Drag & Religious Books | Jeza Belle
In this episode, we sit down with Jeza Belle: drag queen, author, comedian and the first drag queen in history to publish a Christian devotional, for one of the most surprising, thoughtful and moving conversations.✨ We talk queer spirituality, reconciling religion and sexuality, grace, and why faith doesn’t belong to bigots. Jeza opens up about growing up Jewish-Christian, evangelical culture shoc
I Kissed a Girl, Owning “Lesbian” & Toxic Labels: Georgia Robert
In this episode, we sit down with Georgia Robert, a standout from I Kissed a Girl Season 1 and semi-pro footballer for a raw, funny and unexpectedly emotional conversation about identity, labels, sport and self-acceptance.🌈 We get into why the word lesbian felt impossible to say, how school culture shaped shame, and why doing the show flipped everything. Georgia also opens up about how women’s foo
Conversion Therapy, Dating & Iron Fists: Eman Akwafo
In this episode, we sit down with actor, writer and producer Eman, whose work and lived experience confronts the intersections of queerness, faith and Black masculinity.From award-nominated stage work (For Black Boys…) to creating his upcoming play Limp Wrist & The Iron Fist, Eman shares the real story behind his art: including assault, silence, conversion therapy, estrangement and rebuilding
Being invisible, Ghana & Boycotting: Two Twos
In this episode, we sit down with award-winning podcasters and community icons Nana and Ro, the duo behind Two Twos Podcast, a space that redefined what it means to be Black, British, and queer.🌈 From humble YouTube beginnings to shaping conversations around identity, masculinity, and representation, the pair open up about five years of laughter, love, and legacy.We unpack their journey from creat
Culture, Top Surgery & Egypt: Nxdia
In this episode, we sit down with artist Nxdia, who opens up about growing up between Cairo and Manchester, navigating identity, and creating music that captures the complexity of queerness, culture, and self-expression.From journaling teenage crushes that inspired viral tracks to processing faith, gender, and belonging, Nxdia shares the stories behind Nxdia’s most personal lyrics: including “She
Autism, Masculinity & Soulla: Alex Theo
In this episode, Alex opens up about his journey growing up as a Greek Cypriot lad from North London, navigating queerness, comedy, drag, and autism.He shares how his alter-ego “Soulla” was inspired by his mum and supported by his grandma, the struggles and acceptance he’s faced within his Cypriot community, and the powerful messages audiences have taken away from his shows.Alex also reflects on h
Attitude Magazine, Real Bodies & Asylum Seekers
In this solo episode, after being featured in Attitude Magazine, we talk about body image, insecurities, race, hair, weight, and what it’s taken for us to finally love ourselves in a queer community that doesn’t always make that easy.We share the behind-the-scenes of our photoshoot with Gomez, the nerves of stripping down, and the hilarious (and awkward) moments that came with it. We also get dive
Gay Culture, Stepbrother Fantasies & Comedy Gold: Jake Jonez
In this episode, we’re joined by Jake Jonez: the unapologetic artist, comedian, and rising pop provocateur shaking up queer culture. From small-town Georgia to viral TikTok skits and bold music videos, Jake’s story is one of defiance, humour and hard-earned self-expression.We dive into growing up gay in the South, channeling anger into art, and why sometimes the funniest characters come from the d
Celebrity Hairstyling, The Met Gala & Latino Representation: Cesar Delon Ramirez
In this episode, Cesar DeLeon Ramirez shares his journey from growing up in a Puerto Rican household and spending his weekends in a hair salon, to becoming one of the most in-demand celebrity hairstylists in the world.He reflects on the fearless ambition that led him from assisting in New York salons to his first big break with Cassie, preparing for tours with nothing but a Barnes & Noble cras
Gay Dating, Misogyny & The Mykonos Policeman: Rossi Lewis
In this episode, we sit down with Rossi Lewis: storyteller, content creator, and accidental “dating diarist” whose TikTok journey began with a chance meeting at the gym and spiraled into documenting the chaos, comedy, and heartbreak of gay dating.Rossi opens up about his early years in Cardiff, navigating anger, therapy, and the challenges of growing up queer in a world that didn’t always feel s
Interracial Relationships, Travel & Redefining Masculinity: Chris & Jacob
In this episode, Chris and Jacob open up about how they met, fell in love, and built a relationship that thrives on both romance and friendship.They share the story of meeting through the theatre world, touring together, and the unforgettable moment in Bali when one asked the other to be his boyfriend under a waterfall. From navigating life on the road to blending their different cultures, they re
Diverse Photography, Mental Health & Ageing in the Community: Fran Gomez De Villaboa
In this episode, Fran Gomez, Spanish-born fashion and portrait photographer, opens up about growing up queer in Andalusia, navigating repression in a Catholic family, and building a creative career after moving to London.Fran shares how working in an iconic gay bar became the unexpected stepping stone to shooting for major fashion brands and creating powerful portraits that uplift underrepresented
Transfem, being Mixed Race & Acting: Alex Thomas-Smith
In this episode, Alex Thomas-Smith, actor, performer and proud trans-fem non-binary creative shares their journey from growing up in Leeds to making it on the West End and breaking into TV. Alex opens up about falling in love during Covid, spontaneous moves to Berlin, and how communication became the cornerstone of a five-year relationship.They speak candidly about gender identity, attachment styl
Behind the Podcast: Get to know us…
🎉 1 Year of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend! | Mr & Mr Game, Bedroom Icks & Drag NamesWe’re celebrating ONE YEAR of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend in pure chaos, hosted by Jamie from Podcast Rooms! 💖 Expect a “Mr & Mr” challenge full of bedroom icks, drag queen alter egos, and the real story of how Faris & Josh went from friends to boyfriends.It’s unfiltered, hil
TikTok Fame, Comedy & Siblings: Chris Hall
In this episode, comedian and content creator Chris Hall joins us to talk about viral fame, sibling bonds, and the unexpected power of background vocals. From brushing Barbie’s hair as a kid to becoming one of TikTok’s funniest queer voices, Chris opens up about growing up gay in a religious family, discovering community at musical theatre college, and finding his creative voice online.We explore
Hammams, Crossing Borders & Becoming an Author: Khaled Alesmael
In this episode, Khaled Alesmael shares his remarkable story of life as a gay Syrian writer, journalist and refugee: from cruising in secret hammams under an oppressive regime to crossing borders on foot and building a new life in Europe.Khaled talks candidly about growing up queer in Syria, the hidden LGBTQ+ community and the power of desire as resistance. He opens up about his journey through Eg
Open relationships, Reality TV & DJ Supper Club: Joel Mignott
In this episode, we’re joined by model, DJ, Chef & reality TV trailblazer Joel Mignott.From open relationships and reality TV edits to childhood trauma, healing through therapy, and navigating gay love without a blueprint. This conversation is raw, hilarious and full of depth.Joel opens up about what it means to grow up mixed-race and queer in the UK, how it felt to go through relationship gro
Identity, Seeking Refuge & Changing UK Law: Saif Ahmed
In this episode, Saif Ahmed shares his story of growing up as a gay, Arab, Muslim man — and how he went from fleeing Iraq as a child to helping shape the UK’s Equality Act.Saif talks honestly about leaving Iraq during the war, spending his childhood in Dubai, coming to the UK as a teenager, and trying to work out who he was in a culture that didn’t always accept him. He opens up about what it was
IVF, Meet Cute & Resolving Arguments: Taylor & Jeff
In this episode, we’re joined by Taylor and Jeff—the charismatic couple behind one of the internet’s most loved LGBTQ+ love stories. From DM slides and Halloween run-ins to IVF, visibility and making a home in NYC, this conversation is full of warmth, honesty and hard-earned wisdom.We dive into coming out in small-town America, redefining masculinity, and the reality behind curating a “perfect” re
Being Mixed Race, Unpacking Identity & Queerness: BBC’s I Kissed a Boy
In this vibrant and deeply personal episode, we’re joined by stars from I Kissed a Boy—Callum, Jack S, and Ruben—for a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about life before, during, and after the show.From Black barbers and messy sleepovers to discovering queer brotherhood and confronting racism growing up, nothing is off limits. We dive into the importance of representation, coming out sto
Asexuality, Domestic Trauma & Palestine: Aryam
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Aryam Marafi, a survivor, storyteller, and Kuwaiti refugee who opens up Asexuality, domestic violence, and sexual trauma. From seeking refuge and safety abroad, their journey is one of resilience, pain, and reclaiming identity.We talk about the impact of abuse within family systems, escaping a violent home, healing from sexual trauma, and the layered comp
Flamboyance, Gender Fluidity & Fetishisation: Tyreece
In this episode, we sit down with performer, creator and unapologetic queer icon Tyreece. From go-go dancing in Heaven at 18 to navigating identity as a gender fluid, mixed-race powerhouse—this conversation is loud, proud and unfiltered.We talk about being “too gay” for straight people, growing up between cultures, coming out journey, and finding the freedom to be yourself!🎭 The queer nightlife ro
Trans, Muslim, Pakistani & PROUD!
In this episode, we sit down with Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen and transgender activist Asifa Lahore. From transitioning on the NHS to navigating faith, family, identity and the queer scene as a South Asian woman—this conversation is raw, eye-opening and deeply human.We talk about losing male privilege, finding gender euphoria on a motorbike in Pakistan, the power of being visible, and wh
Made in Chelsea, Sobriety & Coming out: Kabir Khurana
🌟 Kabir on Made in Chelsea, Queer Identity & Life Beyond the Screen 🎬✨In this episode, we sit down with Made in Chelsea’s Kabir to talk about everything from reality TV and representation to sobriety, dating as a queer person of colour, and finding purpose after pain. It’s raw, it’s real—and it’s seriously empowering.🎥 How Kabir Got on Made in Chelsea – The unexpected DM that led to his TV deb
Body Hair, IBS Journey & A little Moan...
🧔🏽♂️ Body Hair, Bias & Bloating – Let’s Talk About It!In this episode, we go there — from body hair politics to bloated tummies and invasive procedures. What does it mean to be hairy and brown in a world that prefers smooth and white? While we also dive into Faris's IBS journey!👀 Hair & Race – Why being hairy hits different when you’re South Asian, Arab, or Brown — and how it’s all w
Colonialism, Queer Travel & Allyship Fails: Aisha Shaibu Lenoir
🌍 Aisha on Queer Travel, Colonialism & Building Safe Spaces 🏳️🌈In this episode, we’re joined by Aisha to unpack identity, activism, and what it really means to move through the world as a Black queer woman. From reclaiming queer history to building inclusive spaces like The Common Press, this conversation is honest, powerful — and full of heart.✈️ Travelling While Black & Queer – How Aish
The Queer Arab Debate, Cultural Imperialism & Boycotting: DEAD SEA SPECIAL!
🌊 Gay in Jordan: Culture, Boycotts & The Truth About Queer Life in the Middle East 🧳In this on-location episode, we're coming to you live(ish) from the Dead Sea in Jordan, with coffee, shisha, and some serious conversation. We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to be gay in the Middle East—and why Western perspectives don’t always get it right.🌍 Is It Safe to Be Queer in Jordan? –
HIV, PrEP & Chemsex: Dan Harry
🌈 Dan Harry on Chemsex, HIV Stigma & The Truth About ‘I Kissed a Boy’ 💋In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Harry from I Kissed a Boy to dive into some of the biggest (and most taboo) conversations in the LGBTQ+ community. From his BBC documentary PreP, HIV & Me to the realities of chemsex, we break it all down—while still finding time for laughs and a little bit of gossip.💊 Chemsex: The
Atlantis, LGBT In the Middle East & ‘fake’ Dubai
🌍 Exploring Dubai: Stereotypes, LGBTQ+ Life & The New Middle East Culture 🇦🇪In this episode, we’re recording straight from Atlantis, Dubai—because why not? We dive into the stereotypes surrounding Dubai, its real culture beyond the glitz, and what it’s really like being LGBTQ+ in the Middle East.🏙️ Is Dubai Fake? – People love to call Dubai artificial, but is that just a coded way of rejecting
Traitors, Gay Adoption & Cowboy Carter: Miles Asteri
In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible Miles Asteri for an open and heartfelt conversation about reality TV, navigating identity, and the emotional weight of adoption and fatherhood.🎭 TRAITORS – Miles opens up about his time on The Traitors, the challenges of playing the game, and the pressure of public perception.👨👦 Adoption & Fatherhood – From his personal experience with adoption
Coming out, Stereotypes & Becoming besties: Lordin
In this episode, we're joined by the incredibly talented Lordin for an open and inspiring conversation about breaking stereotypes in the music industry, being an independent queer artist, and navigating identity through music.🎶 Breaking into the Music Industry – Lordin shares the realities of working without industry support, building a career from scratch, and staying true to his vision.🏳️🌈
What it's ACTUALLY like being on BIG BROTHER: Dean Quinton
In this episode, we’re joined by the charismatic and unfiltered Dean Quinton for a raw and revealing conversation about reality TV, media narratives, and life inside the Big Brother house. From the brutal audition process to how the show twists reality, Dean gives us the inside scoop with humor and honesty.🏠 The Big Brother ExperienceDean breaks down what it’s really like—from five days of isolati
The White Default, Bonnie Blue & Gays Dating Themselves
Is Whiteness the Default? We dive deep into the unspoken biases that shape our perceptions of beauty, desirability, and relationships. From dating preferences to Hollywood’s beauty standards, we unpack how whiteness continues to be seen as the "default" and why that needs to change.🔥 Topics We Cover:💡 Why Whiteness is Still the Standard – How media and society reinforce Eurocentric beaut
Queering The System... Taking The SHAME Out Of SEX: Anouszka Tate
In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about challenging societal norms and embracing personal agency. Our guest shares their journey of questioning expectations around relationships, marriage, and identity, revealing how they moved from simply following the "default" life path to making choices that truly align with their desires.🧠 Rewriting the RulesHow societal
Discovering hidden LGBTQ+ histories: Dr. Justin Bengry
In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of queer history with Dr. Justin Bengry, a leading historian and pioneer behind the world's first MA in Queer History. From exploring historical gaps to addressing modern queer representation, Justin offers thought-provoking insights, blending academic expertise with personal stories.🎓 Queer Academia & ResearchJustin talks about lau
KATSEYE, Dark Forest Theory & Bridget Jones
This week, we’re diving headfirst into the world of K-pop, exploring wild alien theories, and reflecting on the randomness of life. It’s fun, it’s deep, and just a bit chaotic—just the way we like it.🎶 K-pop Craze: We break down the hype around K-pop and the intense training that shapes these global stars. Is the West ready for K-pop-style pop groups?📚 Bridget Jones Revisited: A nostalgic yet crit
The Year of not giving a F*CK!
In this episode, we’re back after a little break, and things get hilariously messy as we dive into what’s been happening in our lives. From attachment styles to a dramatic take on decorating our apartment, nothing’s off the table.🏡 Decorating Chaos: We’ve been sprucing up the apartment, and let’s just say Faris doesn’t love my (Josh’s) taste. We spill all the tea about our “discussions” (read: arg
How Open Mic Nights Sparked a Comedy Career: Morgan Rees
In this episode, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Morgan Rees for an honest and entertaining conversation about comedy, identity, and queer joy. From chasing the comedy dream to embracing body positivity, Morgan takes us through his journey with humor and heart.🎭 Chasing the Comedy DragonMorgan shares the highs and lows of being a comedian, from his first open mic to learning the scien
