THE REAL SEX EDUCATION
Diggory Waite and his mother, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell, host a podcast that provides the sex education you never got at school. They answer listener questions about sex and relationships, blending professional advice with a unique mother-son dynamic. The show is a Hat Trick Podcast and encourages audience interaction via social media, email, and an anonymous form.
Episodes
S7 Ep10: What contraception should I be using?
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son, Diggory Waite, chat about the groundbreaking work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, the pioneers of human sexuality research. They discuss how their unconventional experiments—often involving themselves—shaped modern understanding of sexual behaviour.Then, Cate and Diggory answer listener questions, tackling topics like n
S7 Ep9: Can long distance work?
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite respond to listener questions including how to make long distance relationships work and why one might always pee when they play with their clitoris. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -O
S7 Ep8: Are we too old for sex?
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell, along with her son Diggory Waite, responds to a listener questioning whether he and his wife are 'too old' for sex, and to another listener seeking advice on how to masturbate without relying on pornographic videos, erotic literature, or audio content.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can s
S7 Ep7: How do I get a girlfriend?
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions like how do I get a girlfriend not in clubs, pubs or bars, why one's clit might be sore and if it's okay to not be into casual sex...Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gD
S7 Ep6: Should I help boyfriend explore his new bisexual side?
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions including how to help one's boyfriend who wants to try having sex with men and how to remove power dynamics from sex...Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hat
S7 Ep5: Why are young people having less sex?
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite discuss reports that sexual content in top films has dropped since the 2000s, outline the context surrounding the world at the moment and attempt to answer why this, as a recent study claims, means young people are having less sex? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You
S7 Ep4: "Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker?"
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite take listeners questions including:
Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker?
Why does it hurt when I use my dildo?
And how to control ejaculation, increase duration, and mind control?
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https
S7 Ep3: Baby Voice: Why do we do it with our PARTNERS!?
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk all things baby voice - why do we do it to babies? Why do we do it with partners and why is it so cringey to witness? They also take questions from listeners about suggestions for books on different relationship types and how to deal with softer erections? Check out Ms Rachel's TikTok here - https://www.tiktok.com/@msrac
S7 Ep2: SHOCKING New Guidance on Sex Education in England
*TRIGGER WARNING* This podcast contains discussion about suicide and sexual assault. Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss new guidance from the UK Government for schools in England, advising teachers not to give sex education to children under 9 and to not teach students about gender identity. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our
S7 Ep1: What can Dua Lipa teach us about dating?
Diggory Waite puts the lyrics of Dua Lipa's song 'Anything for Love' to his mother, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell. Together, they discuss commitment issues, generational differences in dating and what you can do if you're struggling to find love. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google
S6 Ep20: "How do I make a girl squirt?"
Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer listener questions around squirting, not being able to orgasm from intercourse as a woman and why some straight men are attracted to trans-women with penises. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://for
S6 Ep19: Should you give sexual feedback to someone you're ending it with?
*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below.Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite go through some follow-ups, sent in from listeners who've had their questions answered. These include questions around giving sexual feedback to partner
S6 Ep18: “How do my boyfriend and I get back to having more sex?”
*TRIGGER WARNING* FGM is discussed in this episode. You can find support below: NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/female-genital-mutilation-fgm/national-fgm-support-clinics/ The Dahlia Project – https://www.dahliaproject.org/access-our-services/ In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer more of your questions including if shift work can affect your sex life, how to fi
S6 Ep17: How to Process a Painful Breakup
In this breakups special, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer your questions on breakups and processing them. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com- DMing us on Instagr
S6 Ep16: IVF, Endometriosis and how to give feedback to partners politely...
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite catch up about Cate's holiday, shagging penguins and the mile-high club. Then, they answer your questions about IVF, endometriosis, what it means when you don't like someone, parents butting in on your sex life and how to give your partner polite feedback. Want your sex or relationship question answ
S6 Ep15: The Pill: When is the best time for a break?
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on the contraceptive pill, ghosting, the reason you're turned on by master/slave kinks, how to get better at sex and whether it is okay to fantasise about your favourite characters in a sexy way???Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Y
S6 Ep14: Which simple sex positions are actually best for a small penis?
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer more listener questions like what are the 'optimal' sex positions for people with a small penis, how to destigmatise people with a small penis, how to navigate budding new relationships, all or nothing libidos, chastity cages, chastity belts and Robin Hood... Want your sex or relationship que
S6 Ep13: "How Do I Get Comfortable with Sex?"
In this episode, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listeners questions around how to get comfortable with sex, performance anxiety, response pressure and religious guilt. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7-
S6 Ep12: Mommy Issues: The Ways to Better Understand My Boyfriend!
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory take a serious look at 'Mommy Issues' and answer other questions from their listeners including 'Should I use a tampon to stop c*m running down my leg?', 'Am I not bisexual?' and 'What should I do if my partner has genital herpes?'Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cat
S6 Ep11: Anal Sex: Fears, Preparations, Spontaneity and... Pregnancy?
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on all things anal sex addressing how to do it safely, how to prepare properly, whether you can do it spontaneously and if you can get... pregnant? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google
S6 Ep10: Female Orgasms: How to Start Having Some
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite try to solve the mystery around female orgasms, asking why one might be struggling to have them and how to rectify that. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-
S6 Ep9: How Having ADHD Can Affect Your Sex Life
In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss sex! They also answer some listener questions including:
How does having ADHD affect your sex life?
How do I stay aroused during sex?
How do I enjoy vanilla sex?
Should I have a vasectomy?
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our an
S6 Ep8: 5 Things Every Great Date Night Needs
In this Valentines Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite talk about what you need for a great date night, the history of Valentines Day and videogames...Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Our email: podcasts@hattrick.
S6 Ep7: "I fancy someone who is asexual"
In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer the questions sent into them by you the listeners. After answering a couple of questions about fancying a friend who may be asexual, the discuss long distance relationships, breakups, improving your sexual performance and sex in video games. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cat
S6 Ep6: Does Shame Make Us Monogamous?
In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory Waite through the 'Compass of Shame' outlining the 4 ways we show shame. They talk about the affects of shame on a personal level and in wider society, posing the question "does shame make us monogamous?"Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonym
S6 Ep5: "Is THIS why I'm Gay?"
In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer questions sent in by listeners including someone asking if a particular medical examination had made them gay, should parents take their sons to the urologist, how to get back into dating and feeling sexual and if one listener is becoming straight...Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist
S6 Ep4: The 3 Reasons You're Attracted to Someone
In this episode, sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory through Henry Dicks' theory of 'Couple Fit', outlining the 3 reasons you're attracted to someone: the 'Public/Social' attraction, 'Personal' attraction and the all-important 'Unconscious' attraction. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous
S6 Ep3: Can masturbation affect the way we have sex?
In this masturbation special, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite open up their mailbag to you, the listeners, to answer your questions - this week all surrounding the topic of masturbation. Listen to hear the answers to do I masturbate in a atypical way, do I masturbate too much and is masturbation a sin are all and so much more. Want your sex or relation
S6 Ep2: Delayed Ejaculation - Why does it take so long to cum?
In their most requested episode to date, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite explain what delayed ejaculation is and how one can improve it (should they want to!) They discuss the causes of delayed ejaculation, the affect it can have on individuals and their relationships before answering the internet's most commonly asked questions on the topic.Want your
S6 Ep1: Does Age Really Matter?
In the first episode of series 6, sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer the questions you sent into them including whether a 19-year-old woman is 'shameful' for having a crush on a 58-year-old married male friend, how to help an older partner stay erect during sex and whether it's healthy to have your child see your naked body. Want your sex or relationship ques
S5 Ep25: "My Girlfriend is Friend Zoning Me!"
Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer your questions surrounding seeing your partner as a friend, getting aroused at inappropriate times, vaginismus and struggling to orgasm. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Ou
S5 Ep24: "I'm a 28 Year Old Virgin, is anything wrong?"
In this New Years Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk about sexy New Years Resolutions before answering the questions you sent into them, like:
I'm a 28 year old virgin, is there something wrong?
Can testicular pain be a psychosexual problem?
I pooed during sex - help!
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can
S5 Ep23: What's the Average Penis Size?
In this Christmas Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory chat all things festive and sex before answering your questions:
Why does a clitoris look like a turkey wishbone?
Why do I have a huge dick with small balls?
Why does my penis look stiff when flaccid?
Can anyone improve the girth of their penis naturally?
How many times can someone ejaculate in a 2 hour time
S5 Ep22: "Why am I so horny?"
Cate and Diggory take more of your questions including 'Why is my penis hurting?' 'How do I kiss a girl?' and 'Why am I so horny after buying a prostate piping toy?'Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-DMing us on Instagram, TikTok o
S5 Ep21: "Will I pee if I orgasm?"
Cate and Diggory answer listener questions including a rather complicated friendship, internalised homophobia, thinking about sex without masturbating, overcoming the fear of peeing during orgasm, and how to deal with a breakup.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into:- Our anonymo
S5 Ep20: How to Deal with a Fuckboy (with Mary Beth Barone)
Comedian Mary Beth Barone takes Cate Campbell and Diggory Waite through how to identify, avoid and hold accountable fuckboys everywhere. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Our email: podcasts@hattric
S5 Ep19: Can Premature Ejaculation be cured?
Sex therapist Cate Campbell discusses early ejaculation with her son and co-host Diggory Waite, answering some of the internet's most searched questions around the issue such as:
What premature ejaculation means
Will premature ejaculation go away
How premature ejaculation be cured
When premature ejaculation happens?
Where to treat premature ejaculation
Why premature ejaculation happens
Who can
S5 Ep18: How to STOP Being a People Pleaser
Cate and Diggory answer more of your sex and relationship questions including how to stop being a people pleaser, how to get over the fear of sleeping with someone new after a toxic relationship and how to keep wifey on her toes...Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years Resolution is? You can send them into:- Our anon
S5 Ep18: Why do they make porn for pandas?
Cate tells Diggory all about the interesting phenomenon prompting zookeepers to dress as pandas and simulate sex before answering questions sent in by you about how to get over a breakup and whether there is a connection between emotional repression and sexual responsiveness... Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to tell us what your New Years
S15 Ep16: "My Husband's Texting an OnlyFans Model!"
It's another episode where Cate and Diggory answer the questions you sent into them! This week we have a question on cheating and one on lovebombing, with some listener thoughts thrown in as well. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Or want to let us know your thoughts on what you've just heard? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https
S5 Ep15: Why is Sex So Painful?
DISCLAIMER: Before embarking on any treatment options always best to check in with a medical advisor.In this episode, Sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite talk about some of the reasons why sex can be painful, the affect that can have on your relationships and what you can do about it. Going through a rogue's gallery of sex's greatest villains, they discuss Dyspareunia, Vaginismus, Ve
S5 Ep14: Have I Outgrown my Friends?
Cate and Diggory field your listener questions surrounding whether you can sleep with your friends, what to do if you've outgrown your friends and how to manage a partner who refuses to go to the dentist...Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hat
S5 Ep13: How to have Safer Sex
Cate and Diggory discuss how to have safer sex - from consent to contraception, safe words to STDs - before finishing talking about sex on your period. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @
S5 Ep12: "Should I Sleep with My Ex?"
Cate and Diggory take a look at some of the sex and relationship questions they've received from listeners concerning a bellybutton kink, an inexperienced older boyfriend and a horny girl who just wants to have good sex - but should she go to her ex to get it? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https
S5 Ep11: Is masturbating bad for you?
In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer the question – ‘is masturbating bad for you?’ and question whether NoFap November (the act of not masturbating throughout the month of November is necessary). They also talk about porn dependency, sometimes referred to as porn addiction, and why people become dependent on pornography and how, if you feel as though you’re dependent on porn, you can move on f
S5 Ep10: How to Kiss PROPERLY
Cate and Diggory have a go at WikiHow's step by step guide to kissing properly before answering some of your listener questions about masturbation and libido.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-DMing us on Instagram, TikTok or X – w
S5 Ep9: Why does Ghosting hurt so much?
This Halloween episode is for anyone who has, or has been, ghosted. In this episode, Cate and Diggory discuss the meaning and definition of Ghosting someone to end a relationship, what ghosting says about you if you do it or have it done to you, whether ghosting can be a test or if you can perform a test to see if you're being ghosted, why ghosting hurts so much and what to do instead if you're th
S5 Ep8: "My boyfriend won’t tell me he loves me"
In this episode, Diggory puts questions to Cate from some of the friends in his life concerning a boyfriend who won't "show some moxy" and tell his girlfriend he loves her and what to do when you find out your child is watching porn. They also go on a slight tangent and pose the question - is monogamy human nature? Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? Y
S5 Ep7: How your Attachment Style is affecting your relationships
Today, Cate and Diggory discuss what attachments styles/behaviours are, how you can identify them in yourself and others and how your attachment behaviour could be affecting your relationships. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:- Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7- Our email: podcasts@hatt
S5 Ep6: "Sometimes I imagine my boyfriend is a girlfriend..."
In this episode, Cate and Diggory debate whether going all out on your kinks is good practice for your first time sleeping with someone before answering questions from listeners like from one woman who imagines their boyfriend is a girl when he goes down on her and a widow who is feeling guilty about yearning for intimacy after the passing of their wife. Want your sex or relationship question answ
S5 Ep5: Can Cheating be Forgiven?
Cheating – it's often seen as an unforgivable act, the most egregious sin to commit in a relationship and the end for many couples. But can one forgive the unforgivable? Accredited relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory discuss exactly what cheating is, why people do it and whether it truly has to be the end. Cate also outlines steps you can take in your relationship to prevent a si
S5 Ep4: "I have non-consensual fantasies. Am I normal?"
*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to support services below.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 -Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-DMing us on Instagram/TikTo
S5 Ep3: 5 Reasons Why You SHOULD Sext and Take Nudes
In this episode, Diggory makes the case to his sex therapist mother Cate as to why you SHOULD sext and take nudes. Throughout they answer questions like:- What is sexting?- Which Emojs are best for sexting?- What are the risks with sexting?- What is revenge porn?- How can we stay safe and sext? - Is sexting cheating?- Could sexting potentially lead to a relations
S5 Ep2: How similar are our lives to a certain TV Show?
Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory chat about what it's like to be compared to Otis and Jean Milburn from Netflix's Sex Education. We hear a bit more about what sex therapy entails before answering some questions from listeners about suspecting your partner may have compulsive intrusive thoughts and threesomes. Lastly, we pose the question, can Only Fans be empowering? Do let us know what you thin
S5 Ep1: Is 'the ick' real?
Gone off a potential partner because of their weird laugh? Embarrassing phone case? The way they use their knife and fork? Sounds like you've gotten 'the ick'.In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell answers questions like why we get the ick? Can the ick go away? And is the ick actually real?Want your sex or relationship question answered by our a real life profess
S4 Ep20: S4 20. Why do we have Anal Sex?
Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory talk about anal sex, discussing the different types before answering questions like:
Who has anal sex?
Why do people have anal sex?
How should we have anal sex to minimise risk and maximise pleasure?
Things also get a little heated as Cate and Diggory clash over their answers to listener questions about how to find a healthier balance between casual sex and com
S4 Ep19: S4 19. Why Straight Men Have Sex with Men (with Dr Joe Kort)
In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss:
Why some straight men have sex with men
What defines someone's sexual orientation
The difference between your sexual and erotic orientation
Joe's 4 questions he asks clients to help them understand their sexual orientation
You can find Dr Joe Kort here: https://jo
S4 Ep18: S4 18. Do you have spontaneous or responsive desire?
Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is really a myth, throwing up other questions like:
Where did the idea of 'lesbian bed death' come from?
How do lesbians sex lives compare to their counterparts in other relationship styles?
What is responsive and spontaneous desire and which one do
S4 Ep17: S4 17. How to Approach Modern Dating (with Lalalaletmeexplain)
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to Lalalaletmeexplain about Modern Dating, discussing:
The issues with Dating Apps
What are situationships
How porn is leading us to have deficit sex
How to communicate what you want from your partner
How celibacy can improve your sex life
You can find Lalalaletmeexplain here: https://www.instagram.com/lalalaletmeexplain/And you can purchase Lalalaletmeexp
S4 Ep16: S4 16. Writing Your Rules for Casual Relationships
From 'Situationships' to 'Friends with Benefits', Cate and Diggory discuss why people have casual relationships and what are some best practices for them before answering questions sent in by listeners, including:
I sleep much better when my partner doesn't share a bed with me. Is it okay for a couple to sleep in separate beds?
My partner is always asking me for sex and the more more I say no, t
S4 Ep15: S4 15. The Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Couples Come to Therapy (with Silva Neves)
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to fellow sex and relationship therapist Silva Neves. They discuss:
The reasons why LGBTQ+ have to be treated differently to heterosexual clients
The importance of having a 'Pink' therapist
Body Image Issues in the gay community
You can find Silva Neves here: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/ And you can purchase Silva Neves' book on Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
S4 Ep14: S4 14. Bisexuality - do we need labels?
Cate and Diggory discuss what bisexuality is, whether it's on the rise and debate whether we need labels at all before answering listener's questions which include whether someone can go off their boyfriend because they're 'too nice' and when should someone tell potential partners about their anxiety and depression. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate?
S4 Ep13: S4 13. How to Lose Your Virginity
Losing your virginity. What does it actually mean? Is it important? What should you know before you do it? Can you get it back!? Diggory and Cate answer these questions as well as share stories of their first kisses, answer a listener's relationship conundrum about how to open up their relationship and discuss the problem with the stereotype that men are up for sex all the time. Want your sex or r
S4 Ep12: S4 12. Why We Opened Up Our Relationship (with Jack Barry)
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by comedian and actor Jack Barry to discuss his sex education, acting as his parents marriage councillor and why he and his partner opened up their relationship.For those of you at this year's Edinburgh Fringe Festival, you can hear more about Jack's story by seeing his show 'Don't Happy, Be Worry' at the Monkey Barrel, MB
S4 Ep11: S4 11. (No) Sex in Japan (with Dr Alice Pacher)
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by Meiji University Professor Dr Alice Pacher to talk about her new book (No) Sex in Japan. They discuss why fewer and fewer people are getting into relationships and why those that are in relationships are having less sex within them. They also touch on Japan's rapidly falling birth rate, what that means for the future of
S4 Ep10: S4 10. How to Have Festival Sex (Live at Latitude 2022)
Ever wanted to know how to have festival sex, put your sex knowledge to the test or have some of your burning questions answered by a sex and relationships therapist? Listen in as Cate and Diggory did their first ever live recording of the podcast that they performed at Latitude 2022. Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:-Our anon
S4 Ep9: S4 9. How to Heal a Heartbreak (with Florence Bark)
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to host of the F**ks Given and Love High podcasts Florence Bark about her own history with heartbreak. They discuss all aspects of breaking up, and answer questions like:
Should you cut complete contact with your ex?
What techniques can you use to help get back to feeling yourself again?
When is it okay to move on and start seeing new people?
You can find F
S4 Ep8: S4 8. What is the Dating Strategy for Straight Women We're Seeing Everywhere?
Hypergamy - the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background - is popping up more and more recently. Coaches are creating Instagram and Tik Tok accounts to teach hundreds of thousands of people (mostly straight women) how to successfully date upwards and to date upwards and attract 'Alpha Males' & 'High Value Men'. Diggo
S4 Ep7: S4 7. Cyber Flashing: How Men Can Help (with Sophie Gallagher)
In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to award-winning writer, editor and campaigner Sophie Gallagher to talk about the emergence and rapid rise of Cyber Flashing - the unsolicited and non-consensual sharing of explicit images. They discuss:
How prevalent is Cyber Flashing?
What sort of effect does it have on victims?
Why is the law surrounding it inadequate?
Why do perpetrators do this?
Why has
S4 Ep6: S4 6. How to Close the Orgasm Gap
In this episode, Cate and Diggory go on their first school trip to the cinema to watch the new film, 'Good Luck to You, Leo Grande' in which Emma Thompson plays a retired widow who hires a young sex worker to give her her first ever orgasm. This sparks some conversation that, be warned, contains some light spoilers for the film - but nothing that hasn't already been mentioned in the press reviews
S4 Ep5: S4 5. Cuckolding: When Hotwifing works...
In this episode, Cate and Diggory talk all things Cuckolding and interview Steve (not his real name) who partakes in a specific kind of cuckolding with his wife called 'Hotwifing'. They speak to Steve about:
What Cuckolding and Hotwifing is
Why he and his wife got into Hotwifing
Steve's best tips for making sure you and your partner can avoid jealousy
Bad experiences finding partners to join them
S4 Ep4: S4 4. Are Daddy Issues Real?
In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell takes her son Diggory on a deep dive into all things Daddy Issues. They answer some of the key questions:- What are Daddy Issues?- Are they even real?- What is the link between Daddy Issues and sex?- What do they have to do with attachment theory?- Who can have Daddy Issues?We then open up our mailbag to answer two of your liste
S4 Ep3: S4 3. Improving School Sex Ed (with Justin Hancock)
In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate discuss the new bill in the UK which will make it compulsory to input data that proves you’re over 18 before you can watch any pornography online. Is this a good thing?Enter sex educator and owner of bishuk.com, Justin Hancock who tells us whether we should be worried about the effect that porn is having on young people before outlining ho
S4 Ep2: S4 2. Are you and your partner sexually compatible?
In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell is quizzed by her son Diggory on all things sexual compatibility: What is sexual compatibility? How important is it that we're sexually compatible with our partner? Can we improve our sexual compatibility with our partner? Is sexual compatibility grounds for starting or ending a relationship? What star signs are sexually com
S4 Ep1: S4 1. Big Tits (with Jackie Adedeji)
Can you orgasm from having your nipples played with? Is one boob often bigger than the other? Can you lactate just from hearing a baby cry? Join accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory as they quiz Jackie Adedeji on all things boobs. They also find out what was it like for Jackie to hit puberty so early that she was treated like an adult when she was still a chi
S3 Ep10: S3 10. Polyamory (with Dr. Magdalena J Fosse)
In the final episode of series 3, sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite sex therapist, clinical psychologist and author Dr. Magdalena J Fosse onto the podcast. Magdalena specialises in working with polyamorous and non-monogamous clients – clients who are romantically and sexually involved with multiple partners. Together they discuss jealousy in non-monogamous relationships,
S3 Ep9: S3 9. Fertility (with Ruth Corden & Gill Aldridge)
In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite not one – but two guests onto the show.They first speak to fertility counsellor Gill Aldridge about, the physical, mental and monetary cost of trying for a child, whether the ability to have a child is a human right and how men’s ‘fertile window’ isn’t always as big as widely thought.Then they spe
S3 Ep8: S3 8. Erectile Difficulties (with Angus Barge from Mojo)
Sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite Angus Barge onto the podcast to talk about his struggles with erectile difficulties. Angus tells the story about how it was opening up to his cousin on a long car journey that was the first step to dealing with his issue, what remedies were suggested online (from thrashing your penis with nettles to using PDE5 inhibitors like Viagra) and
S3 Ep7: S3 7. FGM (with Dr Leyla Hussein)
*Trigger Warning* This episode includes frequent reference to and discussion of child sexual abuse and assault. If you believe you may find that triggering or distressing, do listen to a previous episode. For those affected by any of what is discussed in the episode, you can find support links toward the end of the show notes. In this epsiode, Diggory and sex therapist mother Cate invite Dr Leyla
S3 Ep6: S3 6. Masculinity (with Nathaniel Cole)
In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate invite writer, researcher and workshop facilitator Nathaniel Cole. Together, they discuss issues like the currency of ‘nudes’ amongst adolescences, how most young men have seen pornography and know it isn’t ‘real’ sex, but how they’re still not sure what ‘real’ sex looks like and how boys and girls are different, need different approaches
