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Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed,  ADHD or Autistic

Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

Heather Tingle 146 Episodes Aug 21, 2026

Heather Tingle, who is Autistic and has ADHD, shares practical strategies for decluttering homes when you feel overwhelmed or are neurodivergent. Drawing on her own experience of living in messy homes and her professional work as a member of the Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers, she explains why traditional tidying advice often fails and offers systems tailored to real families. The podcast covers how clutter affects mental, physical and financial health, and how to create calm, safe, organised spaces.

Episodes

148 - The Amazing Storage Solution We Never Think About!
148 - The Amazing Storage Solution We Never Think About! Aug 21, 2026 1027 Send me a text message about this podcast Summary147 episodes in, and Heather realises she's never actually done a full episode on one of her favourite neurodivergent-friendly storage solutions: hooks. In this episode she talks through why hooks work so well for messy brains, busy lives, and anyone who forgets things exist the second they're out of sight. Starting with the fruit-bowl-tur
147 - ADHD, Time blindness, and why decluttering doesn't go to plan!
147 - ADHD, Time blindness, and why decluttering doesn't go to plan! Aug 14, 2026 1068 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryYou said you'd "just tidy the side" at 11 o'clock. You look up and it's half past one, the kitchen looks worse than when you started, and you genuinely can't account for the last two hours. In this episode, Heather Tingle talks about time blindness. A genuine, documented part of how many ADHD brains work.  Drawing on he
146 -  Why "Just Declutter Before You Move" Is Terrible Advice for an ND Brain!
146 - Why "Just Declutter Before You Move" Is Terrible Advice for an ND Brain! Aug 7, 2026 2155 Send me a text message about this podcast  SummaryIn this episode of Decluttering Untangled, host Heather Tingle speaks with Emma Sales about the unique challenges neurodivergent individuals face when moving house. They discuss the importance of planning, the emotional aspects of moving, and practical tips for decluttering and packing. Emma shares insights from her book, 'Unpacked Neurodiverg
145 - Is the 'House Hushing' decluttering trend right for you?
145 - Is the 'House Hushing' decluttering trend right for you? Jul 31, 2026 810 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryThere is a new decluttering trend doing the rounds called House Hushing, coined by Myquillyn Smith, known online as The Nester. Heather breaks down what it actually involves, where it works brilliantly, and why she has some real reservations about it for anyone with a genuinely full house or an ADHD brain.What You Will LearnWhat House Hushing is and
144 - The extend and split decluttering mistake most people make
144 - The extend and split decluttering mistake most people make Jul 24, 2026 698 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryYou know that moment when the kitchen cupboard finally shuts, because you've moved half of what was in there to a back stock cupboard in the garage or a shelf in the cellar? It feels like a win. It isn't.In this episode Heather unpacks one of the most common (and sneakiest) decluttering mistakes, splitting or extending a category so some o
143 - How can I declutter when I'm sentimental about everything?
143 - How can I declutter when I'm sentimental about everything? Jul 17, 2026 832 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryTwo clients, one week, the same sentence. "I'm worried because I'm sentimental about everything." It's a phrase Heather hears often, and one that quietly convinces people they're worse at decluttering than everyone else.In this episode, Heather breaks sentimentality down into four levels, most of what feels precious isn
142 - "Do I Own Too Much?" Why Minimalism Isn't the Goal
142 - "Do I Own Too Much?" Why Minimalism Isn't the Goal Jul 10, 2026 803 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryHeather debunks the myth that decluttering means minimalism, emphasising that a home should reflect personal love and functionality rather than societal ideals of minimalism. She discusses practical tips for organising, the importance of having backups, and embracing a lived-in, personality-filled space.Chapters00:00Introduction: Debunking the myth
141 - Why Can't I Keep On Top of My Home?
141 - Why Can't I Keep On Top of My Home? Jul 3, 2026 743 Send me a text message about this podcast Summary:If you've ever put loads of time and energy into decluttering and getting organised, only to watch it completely unravel the second life gets difficult, this episode is for you. Heather talks through one of the most common patterns she sees in client homes and inside the Untangled Life membership: building systems that only work when everythin
140 - Make Procrastination Work For You: The Swap Trick
140 - Make Procrastination Work For You: The Swap Trick Jun 26, 2026 552 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather shares the trick she occasionally uses on herself, and with clients, to get a decluttering task started when it really doesn't want to happen. By pairing a dreaded decluttering task with another dreaded task that has a fixed deadline, she's worked out how to make procrastination work in your favour instead of again
139 - The Placeholder Method: Stop Waiting, Start Acting 'As If'
139 - The Placeholder Method: Stop Waiting, Start Acting 'As If' Jun 19, 2026 1071 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryHave you ever stood in a room, able to see exactly what needs to happen, but nothing will move because one thing is waiting on another thing, which is waiting on another thing?That is the bottleneck, and in this episode we're sorting it out.I walk you through the placeholder method: a simple, slightly-messy-in-the-short-term approach that gets
138 - From Alone to Understood: The Decluttering Shift You Never Knew You Needed
138 - From Alone to Understood: The Decluttering Shift You Never Knew You Needed Jun 12, 2026 1277 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryWhen did you last tell someone in real life what your home actually looks like? Not a partner, not someone you live with. A friend. A colleague. Someone you chose to tell? For most of us, the honest answer is never.In this episode Heather gets personal about the thing that makes decluttering so much harder than it needs to be. Not the stuff itself,
137 - Why Am I So Frustrated With My Decluttering Progress?
137 - Why Am I So Frustrated With My Decluttering Progress? Jun 5, 2026 716 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIf you've hit a wall with your decluttering and you're starting to get annoyed at yourself at your lack of progress, this episode is for you. Heather unpacks why lack of progress usually has nothing to do with laziness, and everything to do with what else is going on in your life.From the aftermath of a heatwave to the stress of everyday l

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