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Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed,  ADHD or Autistic

Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

Heather Tingle 146 episodes Nov 6, 2026

Heather Tingle, who is Autistic and has ADHD, shares practical strategies for decluttering homes when you feel overwhelmed or are neurodivergent. Drawing on her own experience of living in messy homes and her professional work as a member of the Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers, she explains why traditional tidying advice often fails and offers systems tailored to real families. The podcast covers how clutter affects mental, physical and financial health, and how to create calm, safe, organised spaces.

Episodes

159 - How's your AIM? The step you miss which means chaos comes back!
159 - How's your AIM? The step you miss which means chaos comes back! Nov 6, 2026 18:05 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle explains why clutter keeps coming back after a big declutter. The cause is often a home without systems that suit the people living in it, especially ADHD brains. She introduces AIM (Assess, Implement, Maintain) and gives a one-hotspot exercise to try this week.Key TakeawaysPeople often skip assessment because nobody
158 - Where to start Untangling Paperwork?
158 - Where to start Untangling Paperwork? Oct 30, 2026 17:22 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle addresses the common struggle of managing paperwork. She shares her personal experience with paperwork clutter and provides actionable strategies for listeners to reduce incoming paperwork, gather and categorise existing documents, and create effective systems for managing paperwork. The epis
157 - How to start when you can't even get into the Room of Doom?
157 - How to start when you can't even get into the Room of Doom? Oct 23, 2026 18:13 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryCan’t get through the door of your room of doom, never mind start decluttering it? This episode answers one of the questions from DeclutterCon that we didn’t get time for on the day: what do you do when you can’t even get into the room, and where on earth do you start?You might be surprised by where the first step actually is (and it isn’t declutter
156 - Is it OK to double up on zones?
156 - Is it OK to double up on zones? Oct 16, 2026 13:53 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle answers common questions about organising zones in the home, focusing on whether doubling up on zones like bedding and tech causes problems or offers benefits. She provides practical advice on system consistency and how to decide the best approach for your space.Key topicsThe importance of choosing a system for organi
155 - Why Does My Suitcase Never Get Unpacked? (ADHD and Packing)
155 - Why Does My Suitcase Never Get Unpacked? (ADHD and Packing) Oct 9, 2026 10:08 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode, Heather Tingle shares practical tips and personal insights on how to make packing and unpacking less stressful, especially for neurodivergent travellers. She discusses strategies to simplify the process, reduce decision fatigue, and create routines that make travel easier.Key topicsThe emotional and practical challenges of packing a
154 - What to do about clothes that don't fit
154 - What to do about clothes that don't fit Oct 2, 2026 13:04 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIn this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather talks about the clothes that don't fit right now, and why packing them away in a separate box often isn't the answer. Whether it's the bag under the bed marked "one day" or the vacuum pack in the loft, out of sight can quickly become out of mind, especially for neurodivergen
153 - Why Hasn't Anything I've Tried Worked? (It's Not Because You Don't Want It Enough)
153 - Why Hasn't Anything I've Tried Worked? (It's Not Because You Don't Want It Enough) Sep 25, 2026 22:00 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryHave you ever been told, or told yourself, that if you really wanted a tidier home you'd have done it by now? In this episode Heather gets into why that message is so untrue, and why wanting it badly is rarely the missing piece. Money, health, energy, the people you live with, inherited stuff and sheer volume all play their part, and so do syst
152- ADHD and the Guilt of Unfinished Dreams
152- ADHD and the Guilt of Unfinished Dreams Sep 18, 2026 16:01 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryHeather Tingle shares a personal reflection on why decluttering sometimes means releasing more than objects. In this episode, she unpacks how a box of old business supplies surfaced an abandoned subscription box idea and what that revealed about identity, sunk cost, and the difference between a dream and the stuff attached to it. Letting go of store
151 - The missing piece thats holding your decluttering efforts back
151 - The missing piece thats holding your decluttering efforts back Sep 11, 2026 16:13 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryThis episode started with a comment from an Untangled Life member: "but that's the missing piece, isn't it, no accountability." Heather takes that and runs with a live confession: she set herself a DeclutterCon bonus challenge to find and sell £60 worth of stuff from her own home to pay for a course she's doing. She's f
150- Is Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse?
150- Is Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse? Sep 4, 2026 16:04 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIs Your Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse?We've all done it, shoved something into whatever drawer had space, told ourselves "away" counted as "organised," and called it a day. In this episode Heather digs into a pattern she sees in almost every client's home: drawers and cupboards with no real system, no zoning,
149 - What to Do If You Feel Like You'll Never Get Decluttered and Organised
149 - What to Do If You Feel Like You'll Never Get Decluttered and Organised Aug 28, 2026 13:05 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryEver hit the point in decluttering where it feels like nothing's changing, no matter how much work you've put in? In this episode Heather talks about the invisible wall so many people hit partway through their decluttering journey.  The point where progress feels invisible and it's easy to think "what's the point, nothing&ap
148 - The Amazing Storage Solution We Never Think About!
148 - The Amazing Storage Solution We Never Think About! Aug 21, 2026 17:07 Send me a text message about this podcast Summary147 episodes in, and Heather realises she's never actually done a full episode on one of her favourite neurodivergent-friendly storage solutions: hooks. In this episode she talks through why hooks work so well for messy brains, busy lives, and anyone who forgets things exist the second they're out of sight. Starting with the fruit-bowl-tur

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