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Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed,  ADHD or Autistic

Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

Heather Tingle 146 Episodes Sep 18, 2026

Heather Tingle, who is Autistic and has ADHD, shares practical strategies for decluttering homes when you feel overwhelmed or are neurodivergent. Drawing on her own experience of living in messy homes and her professional work as a member of the Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers, she explains why traditional tidying advice often fails and offers systems tailored to real families. The podcast covers how clutter affects mental, physical and financial health, and how to create calm, safe, organised spaces.

Episodes

152- ADHD and the Guilt of Unfinished Dreams
152- ADHD and the Guilt of Unfinished Dreams Sep 18, 2026 961 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryHeather Tingle shares a personal reflection on why decluttering sometimes means releasing more than objects. In this episode, she unpacks how a box of old business supplies surfaced an abandoned subscription box idea and what that revealed about identity, sunk cost, and the difference between a dream and the stuff attached to it. Letting go of store
151 - The missing piece thats holding your decluttering efforts back
151 - The missing piece thats holding your decluttering efforts back Sep 11, 2026 973 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryThis episode started with a comment from an Untangled Life member: "but that's the missing piece, isn't it, no accountability." Heather takes that and runs with a live confession: she set herself a DeclutterCon bonus challenge to find and sell £60 worth of stuff from her own home to pay for a course she's doing. She's f
150- Is Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse?
150- Is Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse? Sep 4, 2026 964 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryIs Your Tidying Actually Making Your Home Worse?We've all done it, shoved something into whatever drawer had space, told ourselves "away" counted as "organised," and called it a day. In this episode Heather digs into a pattern she sees in almost every client's home: drawers and cupboards with no real system, no zoning,
149 - What to Do If You Feel Like You'll Never Get Decluttered and Organised
149 - What to Do If You Feel Like You'll Never Get Decluttered and Organised Aug 28, 2026 785 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryEver hit the point in decluttering where it feels like nothing's changing, no matter how much work you've put in? In this episode Heather talks about the invisible wall so many people hit partway through their decluttering journey.  The point where progress feels invisible and it's easy to think "what's the point, nothing&ap
148 - The Amazing Storage Solution We Never Think About!
148 - The Amazing Storage Solution We Never Think About! Aug 21, 2026 1027 Send me a text message about this podcast Summary147 episodes in, and Heather realises she's never actually done a full episode on one of her favourite neurodivergent-friendly storage solutions: hooks. In this episode she talks through why hooks work so well for messy brains, busy lives, and anyone who forgets things exist the second they're out of sight. Starting with the fruit-bowl-tur
147 - ADHD, Time blindness, and why decluttering doesn't go to plan!
147 - ADHD, Time blindness, and why decluttering doesn't go to plan! Aug 14, 2026 1068 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryYou said you'd "just tidy the side" at 11 o'clock. You look up and it's half past one, the kitchen looks worse than when you started, and you genuinely can't account for the last two hours. In this episode, Heather Tingle talks about time blindness. A genuine, documented part of how many ADHD brains work.  Drawing on he
146 -  Why "Just Declutter Before You Move" Is Terrible Advice for an ND Brain!
146 - Why "Just Declutter Before You Move" Is Terrible Advice for an ND Brain! Aug 7, 2026 2155 Send me a text message about this podcast  SummaryIn this episode of Decluttering Untangled, host Heather Tingle speaks with Emma Sales about the unique challenges neurodivergent individuals face when moving house. They discuss the importance of planning, the emotional aspects of moving, and practical tips for decluttering and packing. Emma shares insights from her book, 'Unpacked Neurodiverg
145 - Is the 'House Hushing' decluttering trend right for you?
145 - Is the 'House Hushing' decluttering trend right for you? Jul 31, 2026 810 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryThere is a new decluttering trend doing the rounds called House Hushing, coined by Myquillyn Smith, known online as The Nester. Heather breaks down what it actually involves, where it works brilliantly, and why she has some real reservations about it for anyone with a genuinely full house or an ADHD brain.What You Will LearnWhat House Hushing is and
144 - The extend and split decluttering mistake most people make
144 - The extend and split decluttering mistake most people make Jul 24, 2026 698 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryYou know that moment when the kitchen cupboard finally shuts, because you've moved half of what was in there to a back stock cupboard in the garage or a shelf in the cellar? It feels like a win. It isn't.In this episode Heather unpacks one of the most common (and sneakiest) decluttering mistakes, splitting or extending a category so some o
143 - How can I declutter when I'm sentimental about everything?
143 - How can I declutter when I'm sentimental about everything? Jul 17, 2026 832 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryTwo clients, one week, the same sentence. "I'm worried because I'm sentimental about everything." It's a phrase Heather hears often, and one that quietly convinces people they're worse at decluttering than everyone else.In this episode, Heather breaks sentimentality down into four levels, most of what feels precious isn
142 - "Do I Own Too Much?" Why Minimalism Isn't the Goal
142 - "Do I Own Too Much?" Why Minimalism Isn't the Goal Jul 10, 2026 803 Send me a text message about this podcast SummaryHeather debunks the myth that decluttering means minimalism, emphasising that a home should reflect personal love and functionality rather than societal ideals of minimalism. She discusses practical tips for organising, the importance of having backups, and embracing a lived-in, personality-filled space.Chapters00:00Introduction: Debunking the myth
141 - Why Can't I Keep On Top of My Home?
141 - Why Can't I Keep On Top of My Home? Jul 3, 2026 743 Send me a text message about this podcast Summary:If you've ever put loads of time and energy into decluttering and getting organised, only to watch it completely unravel the second life gets difficult, this episode is for you. Heather talks through one of the most common patterns she sees in client homes and inside the Untangled Life membership: building systems that only work when everythin

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