To My Sisters
Join your online big sisters Courtney and Renee as they delve deeper into the realities of navigating adulthood, sisterhood and more. To My Sisters is the podcast you needed - promoting the holistic wellness, growth and development of a community of sisters across the globe.
Episodes
How She Built a $40 Million Business (And the Money Lessons Every Woman Needs) ft. Chidi Ashley
How do you go from an idea to building a $40 million business? This week, we're joined by entrepreneur and founder of Lux Tribes, Chidi Ashley, for an eye-opening conversation about building wealth, taking risks, and thinking differently about money. From leaving corporate America to building a global business, Chidi shares the mindset shifts that transformed her approach to entrepreneurship,
Are You Actually Friends… or Do You Just Want To Know Their Business?
Your close friend tells you she’s been married for five months—and you had no idea. Would you feel betrayed, respect her privacy, or question how close you really are? In part two of our conversation, we unpack friendship secrets, healthy boundaries, the difference between showing up and opening up, and how social media can make us feel closer than we actually are. Before you cut her off, sis… let
Married for 5 Months… And You Didn’t Tell Your Friends?
Sisters, imagine finding out your close friend has been married for FIVE months… and you had no idea. Is that privacy, or a sign you’re not as close as you thought? This week, we unpack the difference between protecting your peace and shutting people out, why some friends want information without actually showing up, and whether fear of the “evil eye” is stopping us from building genuine sisterhoo
Is “Princess Treatment” Making Women Overlook Good Men? ft Toni Tone (Part 2)
What does a soft life in marriage actually look like? In part two of our conversation with Toni Tone, we talk about keeping your friendships after the wedding, learning to make decisions as a couple, and the difference between being cared for and expecting a lifestyle. Toni shares why she wouldn’t date someone for their potential, even though she believes in growing together. We also get into mone
You've Been Sold A Lie About 'Soft Life' ft. Toni Tone (Part 1)
What does it actually take to build a soft life? This week, we’re joined by author and internet big sister Toni Tone for an honest conversation about creating abundance, peace and fulfilment on your own terms. We unpack why a soft life is about far more than money and luxury, the pressure women feel to hit arbitrary timelines, learning to rest without guilt, having the courage to be disliked, sett
Spiritual Abuse, Celebrity Culture & Greed: Let's Talk About Church Hurt (Part 2)
What happens when the values of the world start creeping into the Church? In this episode, we continue our deeply honest conversation about modern Christianity, church culture, hierarchy, power, prosperity, grace, accountability, women, suffering and what it really means to follow Jesus. We unpack why Christian communities can become more concerned with status than service, why grace should never
"I Love Jesus, But Hate The Church": Let's Talk About Church Hurt (Part 1)
What happens when the place that was supposed to bring you closer to God becomes the place that hurt you? In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about church hurt, toxic church culture, spiritual community and what it looks like to still love Jesus after being wounded by His people. We unpack the difference between genuine harm and uncomfortable conviction, why Christian community st
Your 30s Are NOT For Playing: Money, Motherhood & Building a Powerful Life | Claudia Lumor
Your 30s might be the most powerful decade of your life — but are you using them well? In this episode, we sit down with media mogul, entrepreneur and Glitz Africa founder Claudia Lumor for a candid conversation about purpose, ambition, motherhood, money and what it really takes to build a successful life. Claudia shares why women need to stop putting pressure on themselves to have everything perf
Your Friend Is NOT Your Man: When Princess Treatment & “I’m Just A Girl” Enter Female Friendships
In this episode of To My Sisters, Courtney and Renée ask whether female friendships are becoming too romanticised, unpacking “princess treatment,” possessiveness, dependency and the pressure some women feel to become the provider, planner, protector or even “boyfriend” in their friendships. The conversation expands into “I’m just a girl” culture, adulthood, masculinity and femininity, the impact o
The Courage to Be Disliked: People-Pleasing, Palatability & Reclaiming Your Identity
What if constantly trying to be liked is costing you the person you were actually created to be? In today’s episode, your favourite online sisters unpack the courage to be disliked — from the ways women are socialised to be palatable, agreeable and easy to accept, to the fear of rejection, judgement and disappointment that can keep us trapped in people-pleasing. We talk about learning to disappoin
Are Friendships Getting Too Expensive? Money, Pressure & the Cost of Keeping Up
Are friendships becoming too expensive, or are we simply struggling to admit when we cannot afford something? In this episode, Courtney and Renée explore the growing financial pressures surrounding adult female friendships—from luxury birthday dinners and girls’ trips to weddings, baby showers and the unspoken expectation to keep up. They discuss why women often struggle to speak openly about mone
The Polygamist, Hiding Your Partner Online & Our Mid-Year Reality Check
In this episode, the sisters are having a proper girl chat! We unpack Netflix’s The Polygamist and the uncomfortable truths it reveals about infidelity, polygamy, financial security, legal marriage, women building with men, and the difference between having access to wealth and actually having ownership. We also debate the growing trend of hiding your partner’s face online, answer a dilemma from a
The Trad Wife Fantasy Is Falling Apart… Here’s Why
The trad wife lifestyle has been sold to women as the ultimate soft life—but what happens when being “provided for” comes at the expense of your autonomy? In this episode, the sisters unpack why trad wife content became so seductive, the difference between a trad wife and a stay-at-home mother, the invisible value of domestic labour, and the very real dangers of becoming completely financially dep
Conflict, Confrontation & The Conversations That Save Relationships
Healthy relationships aren't built by avoiding conflict—they're built by learning how to navigate it well. In this episode, we're unpacking one of the most overlooked relationship skills: healthy confrontation. Why do so many friendships end at the first sign of friction? How do you communicate when someone has hurt you without making things worse? And what does it actually look like to repair tru
Why Oversharing Online Is Becoming Dangerous
In this episode of To My Sisters, we’re talking about privacy on the internet, oversharing, parasocial relationships, and the danger of turning every vulnerable moment into content. From creators sharing trauma in real time, to audiences feeling entitled to every detail of someone’s life, we unpack why boundaries matter, how the attention economy rewards exposure, and why wisdom sometimes looks li
Women Deserve To Be Celebrated For More Than Marriage Alone
Why do women often receive the biggest celebrations when they get engaged, married, or have a baby — but not always when they land the job, heal from a hard season, launch the business, finish the degree, buy the home, or simply make it through? In this episode of the To My Sisters podcast, Courtney and Renee unpack the culture of celebration, societal expectations around women’s milestones, socia
The Internet Is Losing Its Ability To Think Critically: Bean Soup Theory & Rising Illiteracy
In this episode of To My Sisters, we’re unpacking the lack of critical thinking on the internet, the rise of “bean soup theory,” main character syndrome, what-about-me-ism, and why so many online conversations feel more reactive, self-centred, and emotionally charged than ever. From comment sections that lack comprehension to the dangers of outsourcing our thinking to AI, we explore how digital cu
Should You Cut Her Off? Navigating Boundaries, Accountability & Conflict in Female Friendships
Friendship breakups can hurt just as deeply as romantic breakups — but what happens when the friendship is actually worth fighting for? In this episode of the To My Sisters podcast, we open up about female friendship, conflict, boundaries, accountability, cut-off culture, bad character, loneliness, sisterhood, and what it really takes to save a friendship after hurt, misunderstanding or distance.
The Dark Truth About #BeautyMaxxing
In this episode of To My Sisters, we’re unpacking the rise of beauty maxxing, glow-up culture, cosmetic procedures, weight loss trends, fillers, GLP-1s, and the pressure on women to become more “palatable” in order to succeed. From pretty privilege and beauty standards to confidence, self-worth, body image, financial independence and social mobility, we ask the real question: if beauty is currency
Is Social Media Ruining Relationships? Proposing To Your Man, Sassy Men & The Hypervisibility Trap
In this episode of To My Sisters, Courtney and Renée get into the viral conversation around a woman proposing to her boyfriend of 14 years, the rise of the “sassy man apocalypse,” modern dating dynamics, gender roles, relationship expectations and how social media is shaping the way we love, trust and show up in our relationships. From online outrage and hyper-visibility to comparison, insecurity,
Your Body Is Changing. Stop Hating Her For It: Ageing, Body Image, PCOS & Learning to Love Yourself
As women, so many of us are taught to fear ageing, fight our bodies and see every change as a flaw. But what if your body is not betraying you, what if she is asking to be understood? In this episode of To My Sisters, we’re talking honestly about body image, healthy ageing, PCOS, menstrual health, menopause, weight changes, puberty, anti-ageing culture and learning to love the body that is carryin
The Girl Boss is Back: Why Ambitious Women Make People Uncomfortable
In this episode, your favourite online sisters Courtney Daniella Jesse and Renee Imafidon unpack the pressure women face to be “palatable” — liked, agreeable, self-sacrificing, and easy to digest. From people pleasing and ambition to marriage, motherhood, career success, and societal expectations, this conversation explores what happens when women stop living for validation and start making decisi
How Powerful Women Actually Elevate: Build Influence, Power & Leverage ft. Regina Quartey
In this episode, your favourite online sisters Courtney Daniella Jesse and Renee Imafidon are joined by Regina Quartey for an honest conversation about influence, personal branding, networking, leverage and what it really takes to level up as a woman. From building powerful relationships offline to learning how to position yourself in the right rooms, Regina shares the mindset shifts, strategies a
Why You’re Still Struggling With Money (And How to Finally Build Wealth) ft. Benedicta Egbeme
In this episode, your favourite online sisters Courtney Daniella and Renee Imafidon are joined by accountant, author and entrepreneur Benedicta Egbeme to unpack the journey from financial slavery to financial freedom. From budgeting, saving and investing, to building multiple streams of income, tax efficiency, and breaking cycles like financial dependence and “black tax,” this conversation is a ma
Ambitious Women Must Overcome The Need To Be Liked ft. Vuyiswa M'Cwabeni
In this episode, your favourite online sisters Courtney Daniella and Renee Kapuku are joined by Vuyiswa M’Cwabeni for a powerful conversation on identity, focus, and the freedom that comes from letting go of people pleasing. Together, they unpack the pressure women feel to be liked, understood, and everything to everyone — and how that can quietly hold you back from building the life you’re truly
Faith Isn’t Just Spiritual… It’s Practical: How to Actually Change Your Life
In this episode, your favourite online sisters Courtney and Renee are joined by author, international speaker, coach, and pastor, Susan Deborahs Oduniyi, for an honest and deeply needed conversation about faith, healing, and what it really means to grow. Together, they unpack the tension between spirituality and practicality — from church hurt and disappointment with God, to therapy, personal resp
The BIG Changes Women Need to Make in This Economy ft. Mimi Kufuor
In this episode, your favourite online sisters Courtney Daniella and Renee Kapuku are joined by Mimi Kufuor, CEO of KoinKoin Ghana, to unpack what it means for women to build confidence with money in today’s rapidly evolving digital economy. From her background in institutional finance to shaping digital asset frameworks across Africa, Mimi shares powerful insights on financial literacy, stablecoi
Carrying The Weight of Being The Generational Curse Breaker ft. Ebony Simone Morczinek
In this episode your favourite online sisters Courtney Daniella and Renee Kapuku are joined by Ebony Simone Morczinek, a high-performing leader in the financial sector hailing from the island of Trinidad, now living in Berlin. A Harvard Business School Graduate, Ebony has served as a Non-Executive Director and former CFO of Blacklane and has led mergers and acquisitions worth over one billion doll
Why We Left: The Truth About Healing, Rediscovery, and Evolution in Friendship & Womanhood
Your favourite online sisters are back! And in this episode they discuss why they took a step away from the podcast, what purpose looks like after change, and embracing evolution in friendship and womanhood. 💌 Join the TMS Mailing List: https://www.tomysisters.com📧 E-mail us your dilemmas and episode suggestions: dilemmas@tomysisters.com 💌 JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA! Instagram: https://www.instagram.
Answering Your Dilemmas & Questions: Diddy, Faith vs. Feminism, My Man Blocked Me... and MORE
On today's episode, your favourite onlne sisters come to you live to answer you questions and dilemmas.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https://www.betterhelp.com/tomysisters💌 Send your dilemm
How to Balance Enjoying Your 20's With Being Financially Responsible
On today's episode, your favourite online sisters discuss how you can enjoy your 20's whilst still being financially responsible and preparing for a prosperous financial future. From learning to invest, to believing you deserve your own money - they dive into their life experiences and more. 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy:
'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?' Why Women Are Decentering Men and Relationships
After Chante Joseph's Vogue Article titled 'Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?' took the internet by storm, many people around the globe took to social media to share their thoughts; in this episode, you're favourite online sisters share their answer to the thought-provoking question.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: htt
The Patriarchy Pivot: Why Do We Hate Successful Women Now More Than Ever
On today's episode, your favourite online sisters explore why they think some women are facing more backlash and scrutiny the more visible and successful they become. They discuss whether it's tone-deaf to display wealth online, or whether viewers have a more complex relationship with their favourite creators than is often thought. All this and more in today's episode. 💌 Sign up to the mailing lis
The Great Lock In of 2025: Are Women Being Set Up to Fail?
On today's episode, your favourite online sisters share their thoughts on The Great Lock In of 2025! What are the best strategies for women to achieve their goals before the end of the year, and what are some lesser-known traps to avoid so you don't reach December 31st disappointed in yourself? All this and more on this episode of the To My Sisters Podcast.🏆 VOTE FOR US FOR GUAP PODCAST OF THE YEA
Why Are Christian Husbands Embarassing Their Wives Online? Let's Talk Privacy, Patriarchy & Power
Your favourite online sisters are back! And on today's episode, they catch you up on Courtney's wedding and discuss why it seems some Christian husbands have been falling into hot water online. Are Christian couple content creators doing more harm than good, and how does patriarchy play into the effects it has on women and their view of marriage and themselves? All this and more on this episode of
Getting Engaged At The Same Time Almost Ended Our Friendship
On today's episode, your favourite online sisters continue to get real and raw about the behind-the-scenes of their recent life changes. What really goes down when two best friends get engaged at the same time and have to navigate many changes in their lives and friendships at the same time?💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: h
"This Has Been The Hardest Transition of My Life": The Truth About Going From Single to Married
On today's episode, your favourite online sisters get real and raw. In this two-part series, Courtney & Renée dive into navigating transition seasons. They share what the behind-the-scenes of going from single to married has looked like for them mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Get ready for a transparent conversation. 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONA
Healing The Girl Within: Finding Yourself After Being There For Everyone Else ft. Mpoomy Ledwaba
Recorded live in Cape Town, South Africa, in partnership with Spotify Africa, this special episode of the To My Sisters Podcast honours International Women’s Day with a deeply honest and healing conversation.Your favourite online sisters and gal pal, Courtney Daniella Boateng, Renée Kapuku & the wonderful Mpoomy Ledwaba explore what it means to heal family wounds, reconnect with your inner chi
You're Not The Only One Who's Bored: How to Align Yourself with the Life You ACTUALLY Want
What does it mean to live a life of purpose? The sisters dig into how purpose is not about alignment, how to distinguish between a full life and a busy one. This episode offers guidance on discerning your purpose during seasons of stillness, transition, or obscurity. Discover what true fulfillment looks like when you stop chasing validation and comparison, and instead align with what truly matters
Logging Off to Level Up: Why Offline is the New Luxury
In a world obsessed with online presence and constant productivity, this episode dives into the pressures of digital life. We discuss signs you may need a digital detox, such as mental clutter, burnout, and unhealthy comparison. Let’s learn how to reconnect with real life, cultivate joy offline, and find the balance between visibility and authenticity. Here’s some food for thought - how much of yo
"I Can Believe in God & Equality!": Navigating Faith & Feminism
Can you be a feminist and a woman of faith? In this honest conversation, your fave online sisters explore the tension between religious teachings and modern feminist values. The ladies unpack the ways faith can both empower and challenge a woman’s desire for equality. Whether you're deeply spiritual, questioning, or somewhere in between, this episode offers a safe space to reflect, wrestle with co
The Healthcare System is Letting Us Down: A Much Needed Conversation On Sickle Cell ft. Simply Sayo
In this powerful and moving conversation, we sit down with the ever-so-joyful Simply Sayo to discuss her personal experience living with sickle cell and how she has used her sister’s story to raise awareness and spread joy. We talk about the realities of navigating chronic illness, the power of storytelling, and what true advocacy looks like within the Black community. This episode is a remin
The Rise & Fall of the Patriarchy Princess: What Happened to Red Pill Women?
In this episode, the sisters dive into the rise and fall of women who built platforms by echoing red pill talking points and male validation culture. Why did it resonate with so many? What happens when the performance no longer serves them? And what does it reveal about the pressures women face to be chosen rather than whole? This is a candid conversation on identity, internalised misogyny, healin
Locking In For The Next 6 Months: Lessons to End The Year Better
Hey sisters! On this week’s episode, your resident online sisters review 2025 so far, and share their biggest lessons on self-care, mindset, and spirituality. They also discuss what locking in can look like no matter how your year has started. 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our boo
The Gospel of Feel-Good: Has Self Healing Replaced Holiness?
Hey sisters! On this week’s episode, your resident online sisters unpack the rise of the “feel-good” gospel and ask: Has the pursuit of self-healing overshadowed the pursuit of holiness? Together, we explore the tension between comfort and conviction, self-care and spiritual depth. How do we balance healing our hearts while staying rooted in faith? Join us as we reclaim true transformation that go
The Comparison Trap in 2025: How to Stay Rooted When Everyone Else is 'Winning'
This week, we’re taking a look at the comparison trap that’s louder than ever in 2025. We see everyone’s highlight reels—but how do we keep our feet grounded when the pressure to “win” feels constant? Together, we explore tools to protect our peace, embrace our unique journeys, and remind ourselves that true success is personal, not a competition. Let’s break free from social media’s illusions and
Selling Lies as 'Self Love': The Price of Beauty, Hygiene and Self-Care Under Capitalism
The sisters are pulling back the curtain this week 👀 — we’re unpacking the real cost of the “soft life.” From overpriced facials to the ever-growing list of hygiene must-haves, is self-care becoming another trap? We’re questioning whether we’re prioritising rest or just repackaging hustle under a prettier name. Let’s talk maintenance, marketing, and the pressure to present perfection in a world wh
Choosing Yourself: The Rise of Child-Free Women and Delayed Parenthood
On this week’s episode, the sisters are diving into the rise of women who are choosing themselves, delaying motherhood, or opting out of parenthood altogether. Whether it’s to pursue purpose, protect peace, or simply honour personal choice, we explore the societal pressures, unspoken judgments, and growing freedom to define womanhood on our own terms.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tom
Letting Go of What’s No Longer Serving You: A Guide to Detoxing Your Life
Sisters, it’s time for a life detox! 🧘🏾♀️ In this episode, we’re unpacking how to let go of the people, habits, and environments that are draining your energy and no longer align with the woman you're becoming. From decluttering your space to releasing emotional baggage — we’re doing the work together. Whether it’s past friendships, toxic patterns, or just some serious overthinking, we’re le
Does Your Husband Hate You? The Reality of Settling, Suffering & Shame in Marriage
In this episode, we catch you up on life lately, and ask the provocative question: Do Men Hate Women? We unpack the deeper truths behind settling, attraction, and preferences in modern relationships. We explore the complex tension between societal standards and personal desires and we also confront the uncomfortable reality of Christian women giving God bad PR when marriage is presented as a
Why You Still Feel Alone: Loneliness in the Age of Hyperconnectivity & Social Media
We’ve never been more ‘connected’—so why do so many of us still feel lonely? 😞 From social media to the decline of deep friendships, we’re unpacking why modern women feel so isolated and how to build meaningful sisterhood in a world full of surface-level connections.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.co
''NO' is a Full Sentence': The Power of Saying ‘No', Setting Boundaries & Actually Sticking to Them
Sisters, why do we feel so guilty for saying NO? 😩 It’s time to unlearn people-pleasing and start setting boundaries that protect our peace—without feeling bad about it. In this episode, we break down why women struggle to enforce limits, how to communicate them clearly, and why saying ‘no’ isn’t being difficult—it’s self-respect.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com📚 ORD
"I got everything I wanted... but I'm not happy?" - Dealing with Unfulfillment
You worked hard, hit your goals, and achieved the success you dreamed of—but why do you still feel unfulfilled? In this episode, we unpack the hidden cost of ambition, why external wins won’t fix deep insecurities, and how to prioritize peace over validation.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate
The Female Hustle vs. The Male Hustle: Why Women Work Differently
Hustle culture wasn’t built for women. From societal pressures to biological differences, we explore why women work differently, the impact of cycle-syncing, and whether we should be ‘leaning in’ or redefining success on our own terms.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate📚 ORDER our book here: h
The Wedding Trap: Why We Overspend on One Day & What It Really Costs Us
Weddings are beautiful—but is the pressure to have a ‘perfect’ day costing us too much? From family expectations to social media-fueled wedding inflation, we’re breaking down why so many couples overspend and how to plan a wedding that aligns with your values and long-term financial goals.💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: htt
Decentring Men: How to Build a Life That Doesn't Revolve Around Romance
Sisters, it’s time to take back our power! Society often teaches women to prioritize romantic relationships above all else—but what happens when we decenter men and focus on our own joy, ambition, and purpose? In this episode, we’re unpacking the subconscious ways we seek male validation and how shifting the focus back to ourselves impacts friendships, careers, and self-worth.💌 Sign up to the mail
The Truth Behind Being an 'IT' Girl: Hyper-Productivity, Never Feeling Good Enough & Perfectionism
Be that girl, they said. Glow up, level up, do more, be more. But what’s the real cost of self-improvement culture? In this episode, the ladies are breaking down the hidden struggles behind the ‘that girl’ persona—from burnout and hyper-productivity to the pressure of perfection. Let’s get honest about balancing ambition with grace, building a life that’s sustainable, and letting go of the illusio
'Strong Yet Soft': The Art of Embracing Strength & Gentleness as Women
For too long, Black women have been told to be strong—but where’s the space for softness? In this conversation, the ladies challenge the myth that gentleness equals weakness and explores how we can embrace both strength and softness in our faith, friendships, and self-love. We’re unpacking the real meaning of being a ‘strong Black woman’ and how we can create spaces where softness isn’t just allow
Trusting God in Uncertainty: Navigating Grief, Singleness & Obedience ft. Juiceee
In this heartfelt episode of To My Sisters, we’re joined by the amazing Juiceee whose story is as moving as it is inspiring. 🌍✨Juiceee takes us on her journey of leaving the States to start anew in the UK, where she’s been fearlessly chasing her career dreams and opening her heart to finding love. Along the way, she’s faced unimaginable loss and grief - but through it all, she’s remained a beacon
From Surviving to Thriving: How We're Breaking Generational Cycles and Birthing New Ones
We love our families, but let’s be real - some of us are fighting battles that didn’t start with us. In this episode, the sisters get vulnerable about the weight of childhood wounds, the pressure of hustle culture, and the emotional toll of being the ‘strong Black woman.’ But sis, we’re not meant to just survive - we’re meant to thrive. It’s time to heal, rewrite your family’s story, and build a f
'Christianity Isn't an Aesthetic or Trend': Discussing the Rise of Christian Content & Culture
From curated devotionals to aesthetic Bible journaling, Christianity has become a look online. But is faith something to be ‘performed’? The sisters deep dive into the rise of ‘trendy Christianity’ and the fine line between inspiration and superficiality. Let’s talk about cultural Christianity vs. real discipleship, why private devotion matters more than public expression, and how to keep faith au
What They Don't Tell Women About Achieving Unshakable Confidence ft. Tiwalola Ogunlesi
In today’s To My Sisters episode, we’re joined by the powerhouse Tiwalola Ogunlesi who’s here to share her journey of unapologetic confidence and faith-driven success. Author, Speaker & Founder of Confident & Killing It, Tiwalola gets real about what it means to kill it in life - owning your confidence, chasing your dreams without hesitation, and truly walking in alignment with your purpos
Friendship Breakups: Deciding When To Fight for Them or Let Them Go
Friendship breakups can hit even harder than romantic ones. Whether you’ve drifted apart, had a major fallout, or realized you’ve been in a one-sided friendship—knowing whether to fight for the relationship or walk away is never easy. In this episode, your resident online sisters unpack the different types of friendship breakups, how to navigate them with grace, and the signs that it’s time to mov
10 Red Flags in Female Friendships: Gossip, Communication, Conflict & More
In today's episode of To My Sisters, we’re diving deep into 10 Red Flags in Female Friendships. From communication and gossip to manipulation and conflict resolution, we discuss it all.🇿🇦 COME TO THE CAPE TOWN SHOW: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/to-my-sisters-live-in-cape-town-south-africa-tickets-1115879237839?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=
Discovering the Beauty in Our Darkest Seasons ft. Nellie Robert Gbadebo
In this inspiring episode of To My Sisters, we’re joined by the incredible Nellie - an incredible woman who has influenced thousands as a makeup guru and cancer survivor.Nellie opens up about her journey through surviving cancer, her unwavering faith in God, and how she’s used her love for makeup and beauty to empower herself and others. From finding strength in life’s toughest battles to building
The Truth About The Music Industry: Reclaiming Your Power & Rewriting Your Story ft. Ray BLK
This week on To My Sisters, we’re honored to sit down with the powerhouse that is Ray Blk for a conversation that’s as raw as it is inspiring. 🎤✨ Together, we peel back the layers of her journey—one marked by resilience, self-discovery, and the audacity to walk away from anything that threatened her peace and purpose. Ray invites us into her process of taking ownership of her life, stepping out of
Navigating Female Friendships in Christ: Discipleship, Holiness & Pride ft. Megan Ashley
In this episode of To My Sisters, we’re joined by none other than Megan Ashley for a deep and transformative conversation. Together, we explore the power of discipline, strengthening your faith in God, and starting afresh in alignment with His purpose. 🙏✨Megan opens up about the courage it takes to let go of things—and even people—that walk away from you or no longer serve your God-given journey.&
How to Be Fruitful in 2025: Embracing a New Season of Purpose & Intentionality
In our first episode of 2025 over at To My Sisters, we’re stepping into a new chapter as we discuss embracing the fresh beginnings that 2025 brings. From navigating the realities of adulting and growing up to learning how to thrive in the ever-changing seasons of life, we’re here to help you reflect, reset, and take on this year with grace. 💪✨Join us as we share some important updates, personal gr
Seasons of Change: Navigating Female Friendships and Romantic Changes
In today's episode of To My Sisters, we’re diving deep into the evolving nature of female friendships over the last year, as we journey through life. Join us as we explore how to maintain deep, meaningful connections amidst milestones, how to embrace the change and the power of sisterhood in navigating life's transitions.We also have some very big ANNOUNCEMENTS in this episode, so make sure you wa
Becoming a Confident Woman: Overcoming Low Self-Esteem, Perfectionism & Imposter Syndrome
In this weeks episode, your favourite online sisters discuss how to become a confident woman in a world that seems to be intimidated by confident women. From the cultural realities of imposter syndrome in the workplace and at school, to overcoming perfectionism and leaning on your community, they discuss it all with the hope of equipping you as you overcome an of your own insecurities. 00:00 Welco
The Dangers of Explicit Adult Content for Women: Overcoming Addiction, Trauma & Shame
In today's episode, the sisters get real about their experiences with explicit adult content, and its dangers for women and broader society. Inspired by a recent BBC News documentary, they talk about everything from the objectification of women to overcoming shame and why it can be so hard to end the cycle of consuming adult content. 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis 01:48 Housekeeping Announ
Embracing Your Winter Arc: Patience, Pruning & Comparison
In this heartfelt episode of TMS, we dive deep into the "Winter Arc" of life—a season marked by waiting, uncertainty, and challenges. How do we remain faithful when the light seems far away? How can we find joy and contentment in these dark and difficult times? Join us as we share practical tips, and faith-filled insights to help you embrace the beauty of growth in the waiting season. Whether you'
How to Embrace the 4 Seasons of Your Life ft. Courtney Daniella & Renee Kapuku #TMSLiveInLondon
Building on last week’s amazing Live from Layfield conversation, this week’s episode takes you to the heart of our Live in London special with your favourite homegirls, Courtney and Renee. Together, they explore the seasons of life—from embracing the chill and challenges of your “winter” season to thriving and living abundantly in your “summer” season. Expect plenty of wisdom, laughter, and unfilt
Live From Layfield: Navigating Comparison & Jealousy #TMSLiveInLondon
The sisters are still buzzing from the AMAZING TMS Live in London show—and by popular demand, we’ve captured the magic for you! 🎉 That’s right, this special edition of TMS Live in Conversation brings you the Live from Layfield crew’s very first live conversation and a heartfelt reunion created just for the show.Join Zoe, Uvie, and Beverly as they dive into powerful topics like overcoming compariso
Reaching Your Financial Goals: Mastering Your Money, Wellness, and Authenticity ft Bola Sol
In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible financial wellness educator, author, and entrepreneur Bola Sol. We dive deep into her journey of mastering money, building financial confidence, and staying true to yourself in the process. Bola shares her insights on navigating personal finance, wellness, and authenticity in a 💌 Introducing our guestBola Sol is a Financial Adviser (DipFA), Money Col
"Don't Do Business With Your Friends!": Navigating Conflict, Comparison & Offence in Partnerships
As two best friends who run a business together and live together, your two favourite online sisters dive into how they make their friendship and business partnership work despite the pressure, cultural narratives and statistical data that shows most co-founder relationships end up failing. They discuss how they navigate communication, conflict, comparison and so much more. ✈️ Come with us to Ghan
The Truth Behind Building an 8-figure Business as a Black Woman ft Ama Amo-Agyei (Plantmade)
What does it really take to build a business while staying true to yourself? In this episode, we’re joined by Ama, the powerhouse co-founder of Plantmade, to dive deep into the realities of being a woman founder. Ama opens up about the highs and lows of working with family, balancing personal life with business, and what people don’t see behind the scenes. From navigating entrepreneurship to the p
We’re Sorry We Messed Up: Navigating Mistakes, Anxiety & Burnout
In today’s episode the sisters get very real and transparent about what’s been happening behind the scenes. From experiencing anxiety and burnout, to locking in and pivoting. Grab your tea (or some wine) as it’s set to be a real one. ✈️ Come with us to Ghana: https://sortedchale.com/community/to-my-sisters/84💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the B
Finding Balance & Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace and Staying Authentic ft UnJaded Jade
In a world that constantly demands more of us, how do we protect our peace while staying true to who we are? Beyond self-care routines and social media detoxes, what does it really mean to set healthy boundaries, nurture your growth, prioritise friendship and remain authentic in a world of comparisons? We’re joined by the amazing content creator and advocate for intentional living, UnJaded Jade, t
The Hard Parts of Entrepreneurship No One Talks About... ft. Vidette Adjorlolo (Sorted Chale)
In this episode, we sit down with Vidette, our dear friend and founder of Sorted Chale, to talk about her bold leap from corporate life to following her passion for travel. Vidette shares the challenges of navigating a business breakup, the lessons she learned along the way, and how she’s embraced her most authentic self throughout the journey. From turning setbacks into opportunities to building
